How to say goodbye to someone you don't want to lose

Willis 2022-03-25 09:01:11

"How to say goodbye to the person you don't want to lose, I didn't say goodbye."

Not because of Wong Kar Wai, not because of the strong cast, but because of this sentence, I want to watch this movie.
How to say goodbye to someone you don't want to lose. Can someone give a good answer, how, how to make the heart less painful.

Like Elizabeth, she chose to leave, to witness and find her new self through a long journey and a busy life.
Or like Ani, forgetting the lost person by escaping the hangover for a long time. Paranoid to save their love.

Surin said, i hate you but, "i hate you" means "i love you".
It's just that kind of love that is too crazy, crazy love, suffocating and wanting to escape, but it's not that I don't love you, or I won't come back again and again until you leave, heartbroken and heartbroken. It will not settle the bill left by Ani, and let Elizabeth continue to stick it, so that people don't forget him.

Ani said, I love you, I love you so much. But he didn't say, sorry, thank you. I'm sorry that the love I gave keeps you wanting to run away, thank you for letting me have you. In the end, Ani let go, let you go, my greatest tenderness is not to disturb.

Everyone has an unspeakable goodbye. How can they say goodbye when they are so reluctant to give up.
But at the same time, some people, even helpless and sad, had to say goodbye.
Just like Kaya's goodbye, it was deeply poked into tears. That kind of helplessness, deep, as if engraved in my heart.

The key that you once told you never to throw, finally found that even if it exists, it still can't open some doors. And some doors, even if unlocked, were not there. Things are right and wrong, that goodbye, many years later, will still be said with helplessness.

Sometimes, like Leslie, we always think that no one can be trusted, that we can understand others, but we are the ones who stubbornly pretend, but we are the ones who are seen through. We just don't want to admit it.

Sometimes, like Elizabeth, we make a big circle and go through an intersection. That intersection that felt far away at that time, under the baptism of time, there will be worth waiting and worthwhile people waiting for you on the opposite side.

In fact, everyone in the blueberry night may be our silhouette. Those pasts have existed more or less in or around us.
My tears are low. I was poked into tears several times, but, I think, this is life.

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Extended Reading

My Blueberry Nights quotes

  • Elizabeth: Why do you keep them? You should just throw them out.

    Jeremy: No. No, I couldn't do that.

    Elizabeth: Why not?

    Jeremy: If I threw these keys away then those doors would be closed forever and that shouldn't be up to me to decide, should it?

    Elizabeth: I guess I'm just looking for a reason.

    Jeremy: From my observations, sometimes it's better off not knowing, and other times there's no reason to be found.

    Elizabeth: Everything has a reason.

    Jeremy: Hmm. It's like these pies and cakes. At the end of every night, the cheesecake and the apple pie are always completely gone. The peach cobbler and the chocolate mousse cake are nearly finished... but there's always a whole blueberry pie left untouched.

    Elizabeth: So what's wrong with the blueberry pie?

    Jeremy: There's nothing wrong with the blueberry pie. Just... people make other choices. You can't blame the blueberry pie, just... no one wants it.

  • Elizabeth: [wiping her tears] How do you say goodbye to someone you can't imagine living without? I didn't say goodbye.

    [pause]

    Elizabeth: I didn't say anything. I just walked away.