If time could be turned back

Scarlett 2022-09-24 16:01:40

Last year, many people on Weibo reprinted an article about a letter written by a female boss to her female subordinate: "There is nothing more assertive than being poor at the age of 23... Please be good. Enjoy your twenty-three years old, work hard and effortlessly, and wait for the answer to be revealed for you.” So I guess, among the many comments on the film on the Internet, people who are willing to compare it to the prequel of "Sex and the City", It must be a woman in her thirties like me.
Coincidentally, around the time I graduated from college at the age of 22, it was precisely when I watched Sex and the City repeatedly. Will burst into tears because of Carrie's "Your girl is lovely, Hubble", and will be so sad about worrying about my love, and will repeat Barbra Streisand's "the way we were" in my mind. Wondering if I would ask someone when I was 30, "And if we had the chance to do it all again, Tell me would we? Could we?"
As the letter said, "I I know, in your eyes, a woman in her thirties is as old as an overnight meal. A woman in her forties can die. It doesn't matter, I don't mind because I was like that in my early twenties. Thinking... If every girl's 23 years old is not wasted in the wrong love, it is simply a waste." Today, I look back at night, wondering if I should feel for the 23 years old that I didn't waste. Rejoice. At that time, I hoped that time would pass faster, just to see my future life, future love, and future Chai, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, whether it would be as happy as every young girl hopes to be different from others. Again, not eroded by reality. Fortunately, time passed quickly, reality came quickly, and I adapted quickly. If I could turn back time, would I make changes in my behavior and decisions?
Now that I'm 30 years old, I feel distressed for Adam's line "What do u want from me, kid" when I watch "City Girl", and I understand that many things are not what you didn't say, but I didn't ask. Will nod when Marni says he doesn't know what he wants. Yes, at that time, no one actually knew what they wanted. If time could be reversed, would I quietly leave future answers for me at that time?
When I first started watching this show, I thought the girls born in the 1990s were lucky. They could watch this show when they were in their early 20s and comfort themselves that everyone was the same; Watch Sex and the City at the age of 26 to understand the standards and lives of mature and successful women. If I could turn back the clock, would I also give myself an early look at the big winner of the Ballon d'Or?
Or not, because Adam can't become Mr.Big after all. I've been lucky enough to meet the right person at the right age. Maybe life is like this, the unknown is the most attractive.

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