After watching this movie, I suddenly wondered what it is to change myself. Is it about being a better person in love? Is it too narrow to think so, I don't think so. In my opinion, changing yourself in love is to make your own changes for the other party, such as increasing a sense of responsibility, but I think the most important thing is to be in love, to understand the other party, to touch the soul and heart of the other party, and to experience the other party. At the end of a relationship, the quarrel in love is often because of the incomprehension of both parties. Some people who broke up say: the two parties are not suitable. It's because you can't understand the other person's point of view. Just like Ruby and Calvin in the movie, all quarrels come from not understanding each other, not only Calvin can't understand Ruby, maybe Ruby can't understand Calvin, but the final obstacle is that they can't open their hearts to each other. , and can't open each other's heart, love has become superficial, maybe this is the reason for the two sides to break up.
I think this movie has a good grasp of the degree of change, like a guide, telling the audience how to grasp the degree of change in love, what exactly is being changed, and how much the change should be. This should be worth thinking about by many people, and it is also a key issue hidden in love.
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