love is not pure

Alexys 2022-03-23 09:02:29

When I didn't fall in love before, I would look forward to falling in love with all my heart and vigor.
Now I am in love, but I find that the love in my imagination is not so pure. It turns out that love is like an investment. Before putting a large sum of money in, you must first calculate the gains and losses, and think about how much you can get back.

I will be a little disappointed. How can such a calculation be considered love?

Later, I don't know if it is a compromise or I really want to understand. In fact, people are very selfish creatures. We love a stranger more or less because the stranger can give us what we want. Everyone gets what they need, that's all.

Someone once said that we come to this world to live alone and die alone. And the short-lived family and friends just give us the illusion that we are not alone.

So in this movie, the male defendant, Bai Xinran, went to the appointment. The heroine is shy and in love for the first time. They are all looking for a sustenance in floating life.

But the worst thing in the world is life and death. Obviously in love, but there is a distance that cannot be crossed. No matter how much they love, I don't believe that they can achieve fruitful cultivation. Some people will spurn the relationship that is separated because they can't bear the distance, thinking that the relationship is not firm and can't bear the hardship. But how many people are willing to endure the loneliness and loneliness caused by distance? Tang Seng is willing to walk 108,000 miles to get the Western Classics because there is an emperor behind him, and there is a Sun Wukong who descends on demons and demons. But in a relationship, you have to work hard, but you can't be sure what the result will be. How can you endure it? If you are fortunate enough to cultivate into a positive fruit, you will naturally be congratulated. If not, the person is the one who hurts the most, so why bother to criticize and scold? Isn't this like forcing women to observe festivals in ancient times, making trouble unreasonably?

But selfishly, I hope they will be together, after all, loving someone so much is like crazy, not an easy thing. In my opinion, the most regrettable thing is the shallow relationship. If one party changes their minds, the love between the two ends here, and naturally they are willing to find the next companion. But if the relationship is deep and shallow, and the world is so close, this is the most embarrassing thing.

So I didn't feel surprised when I saw the male and female protagonists living in two places, each relying on each other, but it was a pity. There may be unrealistic fantasies about love in the bottom of my heart. So sometimes, I really don't think that humans are the only animals. Everyone is like driving a taxi, which can carry different passengers, but only a fixed number of passengers. One gets off and the other gets on. We take passengers for a while, take them where they want, and then they give us money for gas so we can keep driving. So the hostess got off the bus and the second lady got on. The female lead got on the bus, and the second female had no choice but to get off.

This long-distance relationship is so hard, so tortuous. Get rejected, break up, get back together, get married, separate, and finally get back together. Going around in circles, returning to the same person, but vicissitudes of life and exhaustion. In the end, is it love or habit that keeps them together? Or persistent? I have heard of a theory that everyone has an attachment to completeness, and things that have not been fully completed will always be obsessed with. In the end, after all the hard work, the reason why Like crazy is together is just unwillingness? Is it because you feel that you have put in so much effort that it must be worth it to be together?

Perhaps the reason for two people to grow old together in vain is dependence, is it their own illusion of 'you must'?

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  • Anna: [on the phone with Jacob] I just have to say one thing and it's really important that you just listen to me. I just... It doesn't feel like this, this thing is gonna go away, it's always there. I can't... I can't get on with my life.

  • Anna: It's someone that is very close to me and he's been quite an inspiration in my life. And i almost through my writing i wanted to give something back.

    Liz: Yeah, when i was reading it just made me think about the fact when i was working in NY, my husband was in LA, so he was driving across country. So, on the way over he would take all these pictures of himself and the dog at varies places. So, I sent photos of me and we got all them together and they were all the moment and time being separate, but yet we were together on these photographs.

    Anna: Yeah, that's the challenge!

    Liz: Yeah, it's hard. It made me missing more...