How to convert between freedom and loneliness?

Juliana 2022-04-28 06:01:02

Act like a lady, Think Like a Man.
Words are good words, and they provide another way of thinking, but they are not universally applicable, for individual cases, especially marriage and love.

Empty, not in the state all day. I woke up early and rushed to the evening shift. The whole box of Yakult is the only luxury of postpartum mothers. The taste period adds up to the limit of storage conditions. I have never been so careful, but I responded with vomiting and diarrhea the next day.
The imbalance was cleared, the eloquence outside the situation, it took too much courage to stir up trouble, and it was quiet, just for the powerlessness of the one who looked up and didn't look down. Without seeing these people, these things can really be cured? There may be new episodes to add to the block, the life of repeated conflicts.

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Newspapers and magazines are hyping up the crisis, and there are countless bachelors who can't get wives, but the truth is that there are not a few girls who are trying to be left behind. Inevitably, the doubts are going to die, and the person who is just right, why repeat the tragic reminder, the fate of being picked.
It is the theory of evolution, natural selection, unknown home field advantage, more, wider and richer choices, occupation, education, age, appearance, ability, and even gender. To put it bluntly, the film is still the tune of the patriarchal society. All the girls who tried to reverse it were defeated, and everyone was happy when they succeeded. The comedy itself is also blindly helpless, and the arrow has to be sent on the string.

Men say that when you have someone you want to be stable, you really don't want to continue to spend money. The fact is really so optimistic, in a marriage relationship that has worked hard to break in, should it be forgiven for the occasional "lost", rather than the urge to strangle the other party? Who can guarantee that loving someone is for a lifetime, and then you will never fall in love with someone else.

I thought that it was because of the same aura of single parents that Ma Bao was attracted from one "mum" to another "mum". However, he underestimated the long-standing exclusive possession, but any son of the opposite sex that he tried to date was worth setting off a red alarm. The shoulder of awakening is the responsibility, and the bell has to be tied to untie the bell.
The concept of being together for nine years, catered to the passage of running-in, and then was accepted for granted. On the one hand, he is glad how lucky he is, a woman who is so considerate of himself, on the other hand, he privately asserts that such a relationship is just right, that he does not give himself the pressure to enjoy himself, and refuses to admit that he is too lazy. Why is a man always like a donkey, whipping a whip and moving, so he is tired, and if he can't continue, why should he lose the rest of his life?

Even if it's just girls together, they will discuss the salary of the job. They are not worse than men, so they deserve better treatment. At least the same level, they will not be lowered, and they don't have to be accommodated. Such a standard should be better than that of an unknown Xiaokai marrying a girl. Celebrities even more so. It's just that the top of the pyramid has everything, overlooking all living beings, looking around, turning around and being alone.
It should be a man's nature to grow up, and he is always hot for three minutes and wants to do so many things. The dream is beautiful, but the reality is cruel. There is nothing that is not real money. His advantage should be compassion, knowing how to listen and being willing to praise, so women who are constantly turning around can rest for a while and enjoy the gentleness of the ordinary world, rather than a match made on the surface. The other person who happened to be sent to his side was just cannon fodder after all, and became a reference.

The legend of the prodigal son has always been heard in the community. Whether the gold is not exchanged and the warmth is self-aware. The 90-day test is a bit unfair to say, it is self-protection, but why is it unilaterally scheming to deny the tacit understanding that has been with him for a long time, and to put it bluntly, it is not the opponent who can't believe it, but it is repeated again and again. Third, the abandoned self. Too worried about repeating the same mistakes, so cautious, so tit for tat. It’s just that it’s unreliable to copy and copy in this world. If you feel remorse, you should become a Buddha on the spot.

If you want to get the so-called enlightenment, in the end, it is still a mystery and chaos. Guessing is like finding a needle in a haystack. It is a technical task that requires too much luck. The conversion between freedom and loneliness is no easier than Goldbach's conjecture.

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Think Like a Man quotes

  • Cedric: What do you call the three rings of marriage? Engagement ring, wedding ring and suffering.

  • Cedric: Hey Mike, how old is your mom?

    Michael: What?

    Cedric: No, not like that. Well, it is. It is like that. How old is she? I come in the house, she was like "You wanna eat?" I said "Eat what?"

    Michael: First of all, put my plate down and stop hitting on my mom!

    Cedric: Don't get mad at me! I didn't even wanna be here! Y'all the ones that wanted to be here! I wanted to go to the strip club! Man, wrap this up. I got a bunch of ones and somebody gonna get 'em. Ms. Loretta, I'm ready for the rest of the tour!