Going around is still you

Cathrine 2022-03-23 09:02:26

This is a 2009 movie. In 2009, this movie was not discovered. I saw it on Q's list of what I wanted to see, and I downloaded it. I thought that like all the cliché plots, this sister-brother love would come naturally, but I didn't expect it to be a little surprise and a little plot.

There are many reasons for the end of a marriage, this time it is because of high technology. How many people have been defeated by high technology, pornographic photos and the like are depth charges. Marriage is really a bottomless stagnant water. Even without the 49-second video, the heroine and her husband are habitually living together. Isn't there such a saying, after a long time, you will get used to it, and a life without passion and turbulence is also the dark side. In short, if there is no courage to change, it is better to cover up everything carefully.

The beginning of a new life is always the most difficult. Speaking of a woman looking for a job at age 40 without any work experience is really scary. Moving from the suburbs to the city with two kids and seeing the 3 locks on the door, you know how hard life is. When I saw that part of the class, I laughed to death. America is such a good place, there are all kinds of people and all kinds of classes. A woman with two naughty ghost children, still working, can imagine how much pressure. Compared with the middle-aged wretched and perverted uncle, the kind and simple boy in the coffee shop is really mature, cute and sensible. No wonder mature women love it. I don’t know if there are such boys in real life. They are reluctant to let their ex-wife be expelled and not divorced. They give up their good jobs and are willing to be babysitters. Extinct.

In fact, seeing him take care of the two children with all his heart, I really feel that sometimes boys take care of children better than girls, of course, the premise is that the man is really responsible and willing.

When I saw them going to the hospital, I thought it would end with the birth of a new baby, but the screenwriter pulled the two apart. Come to think of it, one is 25, the other is 40, and they have been together without experiencing anything. That kind of life is too ridiculous. Even if they are together, they might be separated soon. As we Chinese say, good things take time. Some things really have to go through some, to know whether they really need it.

After 5 years, they met again. The two little cute children have also grown up, and they are actually not as good-looking as they used to be. The little boys in the past were so silly and cute, and the little girls were cute too. After 5 years, the male protagonist has become handsome, and he feels masculine, perhaps because of his beard. In fact, I really feel that the beginning is not good-looking. Although he is 24, it is not bad to stand with the 40-year-old heroine. Foreign men really grow mature first, and then they have unlimited quality. As far as looks are concerned, I think the heroine is beautiful, very feminine, and her voice is very magnetic, especially the smoking part, which is really sexy. No wonder the little boy fell in love with her too. 5 years later, according to the words of the hero's mother, everyone has grown old, only she has not changed. I think this is beyond reality. It is hard to imagine that even if a woman is well maintained, the difference between 45 and 40 is definitely bad.

How likely is it that couples who haven't seen each other in 5 years will still be together? I read a sentence two days ago that many people live the lives of their neighbors. We are all used to living the same life as the people around us, so that we are safe and feel normal. In real life, 5 years is such a long time, it is estimated that even if we meet, it is very likely that the two of them have a company, whether they like it or make do, and maybe there is a child who is half of their own blood, fighting around. , hurriedly asked each other how are you, and then silent in each other's wrinkles and embarrassment. There is very little chance of a happy ending like this movie. All I can say is, if there is, it is true love. Bloody true love.

No matter how pessimistic I am, seeing this result still feels logical. The moment the two held hands in tacit understanding, they felt that five years was a time for each other to cultivate. Perhaps, these two people are the best fit, but they didn't meet at the best time. Mature, the word actually has nothing to do with age. Anything, perhaps after a certain period of time, can come naturally. Just like them, 5 years ago, even if they really fell in love, under the pressure of life and their own troubles, this relationship would definitely be killed in the cradle.

In fact, I have never been against sister-in-law love. If there is really a man who can take responsibility and take responsibility, age really does not matter. It is estimated that the heroine has expressed the voice of many people in the boxing match, and women need the right to speak. She blooms like an elegant flower, after the divorce, after meeting this lovely younger brother. The temptation of mature women may be their femininity, but I believe it is more about the confidence to be brave and be yourself.

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The Rebound quotes

  • Sadie - age 9: Aram! Aram!

    Frank Jr. - age 7: Mom is dead!

    Aram Finklestein: What?

    Frank Jr. - age 7: Come on!

    Aram Finklestein: She's not dead.

    Sadie - age 9: Could be post-mortem twitch.

  • Daphne: Oh, my God!

    Sandy: What?

    Daphne: You have a thing for the nanny!

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