I have never been able to resist a brother who looks like this, especially such a brother who has a heart of compassion, a gloomy temperament and deep eyes, weak and tough, maintains an elegant and decent gentleman's demeanor to others, and will moderately self-abuse and violently vent to himself. Honestly, a brother like this always arouses my latent maternal and protective desires.
What kind of mood did I watch the film with, the first line has won my heart---"And never have I felt so deeply at one and the same time so detached from myself and so present in the world ."--Albert Camus. What a tangled and joyous state of mind. The first time I learned about "detachment" was when I listened to Tal about the Dalai Lama's practice in positive psychology, and described the highest state as detachment, which is the height of unity between man and nature. In this film, detachment is escape, twisting, speechlessness, loneliness seeping into the bones, indifference and numbness, alienation, an insurmountable gap and estrangement between people, or...?
"Whatever is on my mind, I say it as I feel it. I am truthful to myself. I'm young and I'm old and I'm bored up to my soul. So many times I am out of faces and I am gone. I am just like you." After meeting the sick children on the first day, Henry, who was bored at night, was wandering by the side of the road, and this monologue appeared just right. Immediately in my mind, the classic faceless male image of Spirited Away "I am out of faces and I am gone. I am just like you." In the painting given to Henry by the fat girl in the back, it is his Depicted as a faceless man. Oh, I am just like you... The film implicitly hints at Henry's tragic childhood, the product of incest by his relatives, his mother's suicide, and his grandfather and father raising him. The old and frail grandfather was tortured by his conscience. He had to take care of his last relatives. Every time, childhood flashes appeared in his mind, and he could only curse "fuck" silently in his mouth. Grandpa is afraid of death when he is old, and all the unfortunate things he has done come out. Does a person have a soul when he dies? With the crime of this bastard old man, in the final judgment, it must be enough for the angel of judgment to drive him into purgatory with a sharp sword.
This kind of experience made our male protagonist better understand those two hundred and five mad children who deserve to be cursed. He hates and sympathizes with them. He also experienced such a tragic childhood, why can he still have such a pure white soul? Those idiot children and idiot parents, die, how can you torture the boy I love like this? ? ?
He quoted the double thought in Nineteen Eighty-Four in his class, and said that in order to resist this kind of error, in order not to follow the trend of public opinion, in order to defend the independence of self-consciousness, we need reading and imagination. This passage completely shocked me and made me agree with it. Reading is actually a kind of detachment. You see someone going through the same mental journey as you, the same puzzlement, the same search for the answer, the same trial, the same pain as failure, which makes you feel the same way, makes you feel that you are not alone, makes you feel the same way. Be comforted and make you see hope. Does the pain decrease a bit when you know that everyone is the same? When you see someone succeeding in a temptation, can you also see hope in doing so?
The part between him and Miss Madison had just begun, and at one point I had hoped that this story should have a happy ending. But Miss Mai's reaction to seeing him and the fat girl hugging in the classroom was so disappointing to me. Miss Mai's appearance is my favorite type. This dark film makes me expect Miss Mai to bring a little warmth to Henry. But her aggressive questioning was clearly a suspicion and insult to our male pig personality, a huge and devastating blow. Seeing her wide-eyed hysteria really wanted to drag her out and beat her. The male protagonist completely collapsed at this time, the shadow of childhood reappeared, and roared and stuttered "I'm....not a old sick man!! Is that what you think of me???" Miss Mai saw this situation This scene should have retire quickly, but also argue against the gods! It seems that you have never really understood our male pig. You are also a teacher in a lunatic asylum. You also need people to listen, encourage and agree. Why should you doubt our fragile male protagonist? ? ? It looks like you two are not suitable! ! !
Erica started to give me a very bad feeling, a beautiful girl who has gone astray without repentance, and dared to pick up guests in such a lovely and clean home as our male protagonist! Our dear male protagonist is so kind and treats her like a daughter. Erica changed her black clothes and black fishnet stockings and put on a white T. It was beautiful when she went shopping with the male protagonist and slapped around in the store! That background music! I finally saw his smile! ! ! The ring that Erica gave him, oh~ the moment you put it on, I knew you were loved again, and Erica's image of a young prostitute was swept away in my heart. Accept it, accept it, dear! At the end of the story, after the male protagonist drove her away, he unloaded his psychological burden after his grandfather's death and went to see her in the foster home. When Erica rushed over to hug him with tears in her eyes, I was thinking, kiss you and be kind Accept her for yourself! We all know you are not an old sick man. The story is almost over, and I secretly hope that Erica's AIDS test results are not bad.
The suicide of the fat girl is very baffling to me. The anonymous article in the composition that Henry asked the students to write must be hers. It seems that she has wanted to die for a long time. Dear male protagonist, don't blame yourself. Little Fat Ni, originally I liked you quite a bit, but no one is obliged to save anyone. All the answers to the question are really contained in the question itself.
There are also two paragraphs in the film that left a deep impression on me. The first paragraph describes that each of the faculty members has problems, and they take their problems home with them every day when they go home. All kinds of disappointment, exhaustion, frustration and silent anger make me a little worried. People must not be numb. Once numb, there is really only a sense of powerlessness. In the other part, the male protagonist found that the man with glasses was holding the wire website and looked up at the sky, went up and asked, "How are you?" The man with glasses replied in shock, "Did you see me? This is so fucking cruel, thank you so much." , then turned away. Oh~ what a cute twist in the tone of this answer. Through the lens of the fat girl, we know that the man with glasses stands there like this every day, and finally someone discovered his existence.
Liu Yuling's anger is also very positive! The acting is extraordinary! That kind of despair and speechlessness, out of anger and gnashing of teeth, "It's so easy to be careless. It takes courage and courage to care. None of you have any of these qualities"!
What a fucking life! How speechless and helpless!
I hope you can find a way to entertain yourself in the cold bottomless pit, find release and solution, and be lucky enough to meet and grasp the little bit of warmth that belongs to you. At this time, you can accept it calmly, let go of your spiritual debt, allow yourself to stop self-abuse, and give yourself a chance to save each other, a reason to enjoy happiness, and a future to face the cruel world side by side. Please believe that winding paths will gradually appear between the castles isolated on the wasteland at this time, and the bonds connecting each other will bring life to the originally miserable entire wilderness.
Thank you for this film for giving me a night of indulgent tears, allowing me to reveal my hidden thoughts and giving me time and opportunity to think carefully.
Before becoming a parent, please take a good look at your qualifications. The last thing I say to myself.
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