A hard man's spring dream, but only a dream.

Shirley 2022-03-24 09:01:42

When I saw this name for the first time, I burst out laughing.
Thinking about the jokes I told people some time ago,
although it was a joke, there
would still be a lot of hidden wounds when I said it.
This is a very distressing statement.

An ordinary boy who can't be more ordinary, he is dazed by the love of a super-beautiful encounter.
This world of love may only exist in movies.
But being able to have such a spring dream on a hot summer day
is a comfort to most YY men.

What impressed me the most was the fat friend of the male protagonist, who was the only married person in this group.
He is also a person who has always been optimistic about and always encouraged his friends to cherish this relationship.
In particular, the speech-like confession was simply heartening.
"You are you, you are very good, you are worthy of anyone. Those who think you are not worthy of her are actually not worthy of yourself"

After watching this movie, I kept thinking, love is this thing , do you also need a match value?
I always thought that love is love, to love someone is to love her, do you need anything else?
When I said this question, I immediately called myself naive.
I've been in and out of college a lot recently, and I always want to laugh when I look at the young couples on and off campus.
They may be clinging to a thing called love.
But my experience tells me that love is only love after it has passed.

It feels good to love someone.
You will be thinking of her every second,
thinking that you will see her at any time in your field of vision, you
will miss her, and you will miss her.
Will often think, eh? What can she do now?
Will pay attention to anyone on the street who may be the other.
I knew clearly in my heart that I would not, and I also thought, it can't be her, right?
When I'm with her, even if I don't say anything, my heart will be very happy.
Just look at her and have her by your side.
...
I don't know if that counts as love.
But, I think my love is like this.

Some people say that my life is bad because I don't have a good relationship.
Everyone should have a suitable love object and marry for a lifetime.
But I said that it is difficult for me to tolerate love that is not love, and it is difficult to accept things that are too fake.
In other words, even if it is cheap, I have to be cheap and very real.
However, the results of the reproduction of human society tell me that this is unscientific.

Love is no longer a necessity for love.
When you think that what you have paid is your most precious love, it
may be worthless in the eyes of the other party.
This presents a seemingly misunderstood reality.
My most precious thing is love, I give you my most precious thing, but you think I'm stingy.
But I want those that I think are the least valuable, such as
houses that can be earned with some time.
Or a BMW that can be earned by spending some time. . . . . Is this a good life?
But without love, is life with a house and a BMW a good life?
For love, I will earn a house and a car, but it is absolutely impossible to exchange a house and a car for love.
Because I know that no matter how good a house or a good car, these can only make me happy for a while.
And only love can make me happy.
When I get old, I can still look at the old woman and say, it's good to have you here.
Who would care where the house and car were back then.
Man, you always have to live a long time.

After all, I'm still a little idealist.
I would say that because I don't have a house or a car at all, that's why I'm so arrogant.
Oh, maybe it is, but I can be considered to have a relatively rich life.
In other words, there are a lot of people around me who have such conditions, and
I see that they are all so eager for love, although they are not many women.
I will also use my "pure love theory" to lobby them, but they will directly give me the middle finger:
"Don't talk about feelings, it will hurt money! Women are the same, whether they love or not, that is what people say Are you saying that?"
Having said that, I often see people who say these words stay up all night and get drunk and don't know who they are hurting.

Men are emotionally vulnerable, really.
It is hard to fall in love with a person, you are diligent in every possible way, and in the end you are at best a male pet.
Occasionally smile at you, you will also feel that it is giving you the happiness of the whole world, that is, people are using you.
Usually cold and cold, you will feel that you are living in hell, but in fact you have nothing to do in other people's hell.
Therefore, some experts conclude that love is a one-way line,
which is very comforting. But after comforting her, she still wanted to scold her.
No wonder people say that only women and villains are difficult to raise. If you fall in love with a villain's woman, it will be even more troublesome.

But at this time, men also think, what do you love?
Is such a woman worthy of love? In my opinion, let's just blast her with some foul language.
But love can make a person cheap, and once he is cheap, he can't bear it. I had no choice but to grab a buddy holding a wine bottle and say
I'm so fucked up in love.
Haha , never say to a woman, "I've already given you my heart, what more do you
want?"


It's a good thing to think about it. A man has no right to blame any woman. If he loves, it must be pure love.
And pure love is not for possession.
When you feel like you need her to love her, that's not love.
Rather, you need her because of love, and without her, your love will not die.
Only selfish people think that what I want must be what I need.
What you need to get, has nothing to do with feelings.
Just as parents don't love their children because they need a child,

think about others.
When people have the conditions to choose a better life, why should they choose you?
The same is love, why not have a house, A4 and a bright future?
No one wants to live a tired life. It is better to have a choice than to have anything.
It's human nature, and men don't need to be hypocritical anymore.

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She's Out of My League quotes

  • Patty: Go shit in your hand.

  • Kirk: Stainer, I know you don't like her very much.

    Stainer: Nooo, no. I hate her. In fact, the day you broke up with her I marked that down on my calendar as a day of rejoicement. I'm going to celebrate it with a cake with her face on it, but instead of eating it, we smash it.