He lost not only his father but the only person he could communicate with. He couldn't accept not only his death but not being able to answer his phone before he died. It's not that he's rude, that's his insistence that he can't be disturbed.
When we communicate with our children, the best way is to squat down and talk to them, rather than looking down on his actions. His search is serious and urgent, he has his principles, and anyone who wants to join his activities must follow his principles, including Grandpa. They set a lot of rules, but he still overcame his fear and took the subway with his grandfather, let his grandfather stay where he was and knock on the door of strangers by himself, and also tolerated his slowness and went back to help him cross the road. He has done enough.
If he said too much to his mother, he would say softly that he was not serious. How many people will slam the door after arguing with their parents after they are 18 years old? To Mom, he rarely said love, he did it in his own way - sharing his secrets. At the end of the film, he puts his expedition notes on his mother's bed, which is the best love.
He should be understood. He said he loved his dad because he never thought of him as a child.
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