A friend asked me what was the point of this film, and why I expressed my unique emotions so forcefully. Is there a twisted plot and a tear-jerking plot? My feeling is that this is not a movie that necessarily pushes you when to cry and when to laugh. He naturally conveys his inner feelings with just the right little details. The feelings of the little boy and his father can be said to be a kind of feeling that is difficult to understand under China's national conditions. An equality beyond love. do not stop looking. This sentence became all the sustenance in the boy's heart. The father has a comforting tenderness for the boy. It was difficult for the boy to fully express all the talents he wanted to show with others. The father helped the boy print business cards and added various names that made people laugh. The father always smiled and shrugged at the boy. No matter how bizarre the dialogue seems to us. The father made a laborious search plan for the boy, and the boy himself could not confirm whether it was the sixth district. Because the father understands that in this search, the boy is thinking fast, trying to communicate with everyone, conveying emotions and listening to other people's stories. Therefore, the father is the beloved partner who shares the fruits of his life. For boys, losing a father means losing their reason to live. In the beginning, the little boy is hysterical about the empty box in the tombstone. Maybe he was reluctant to admit why there was a reason that doesn't make sense to take his father's life. [If it takes eight minutes for the sun to explode for people on Earth to perceive it. In those eight minutes, the world was still bright and warm. 】So that key became another sustenance for the boy. Don't think his search is neurotic. He wanted to get closer to his father, to extend those 8 minutes. After his father left, the boy was more and more afraid, afraid of old people, crying children, noise, bridges, all transportation facilities... He tried his best to protect himself and ran, not going to the bridge, not taking the subway, not going into strangers Family. However, he may not have noticed that he was secretly changing. It's love for my father and trust in more and more people. His grandpa's character is also arguably a wonderful part of the movie, I always thought he would speak at some point of panic. All along, he was writing lightly. I know his love for boys is deep. The way he frowned, the way he deceived the boy to take the subway to walk over the bridge, the way he wrote "stop" with heavy eyes, and the way he left tears on the taxi at the end... The movie that touched me the most was the scene between the boy and his mother. The boy leaned down to the floor and said [I LOVE YOU]. Mom looked at the shadow under the door and leaned down. The boy always felt that only his father could think like him. He said a very hurtful thing to his mother. He said that I would rather die for you than for him. Even so, the mother still tried her best to find it with the boy and to think in sync with the boy. She said she could only start breathing again every time the boy walked in the door. I know this is another kind of love. For this different little boy, maybe it's not just comfort and hugs that can make him realize another existence of dependence. They reminisced about everyone they met in their memories, reminiscing about the little details of their father together. The only thing in the movie that made me burst into tears was the phrase they said together [What are you doing? 】The boy thought that if he lost his father, he lost the world, but in fact everyone around him loved him like his father. Maybe all of us are the same. We grieve for our loss, but there are people all over the world who have lost something like us. Although each has its own shortcomings, we are still determined to move forward. Because in fact, those who have not noticed, have always loved us deeply.
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