Woman, man, this is never a love story

Providenci 2022-12-31 05:34:20

Men and women have always existed in two worlds, even when they are in love. No, I doubt it's in love, it should be said even if they marry.
Ada is isolated from the crowd because she cannot speak, but rather than being isolated by the crowd, it is better to say that she chooses to stay away from the crowd. She has no love for this world, even with a mean contempt. She only loves the piano.
Both Bo and Ada's husbands love Ada, and love Ada as much as a man loves a woman.
Ada's husband, Stuart, nervously brushed his hair over the photo of Ada's serene beauty before Ada's arrival. I suspect he subconsciously felt that he was unworthy of Ada, which is why he tolerated Ada like that. He hoped to have a real family after a long wait, a real Ada. At the beginning of the film, I felt that this husband was too worldly, but in fact, he looked very worldly, without masculinity, and did not understand Ada at all. But later this man was so gentle and forbearing, he suppressed his anger, he wanted to wait for Ada. After confirming that Ada really had fallen in love with someone else, she was so desperate that she ran to Derby's house to repeat Ada's wishes heartbroken. Finally, he is dead. I was like, actually, what's so great about Ada? But she is a woman with too strong personal will and self-righteousness. She thinks that she is suffering, but she does not know what kind of disaster she has brought to others? Even the youngest daughter can feel and recognize the stepfather's love, but the woman who only loves herself is abandoned.
Bo, he really loves this woman. I have to admit that even though this man is a little older and has loose fat, when he looks sadly at the camera, when he stands naked in front of Ada, I still have to admit that she is such a good looking man - so masculine charm. Like I must admit Ada who never said a word from beginning to end, when she stared at the camera smiling, angry, sad or thinking, when she cut her fingers down in the rain in despair as her world shattered, she was so beautiful , as quiet, sad, pale as a goddess.
But even if two such beautiful characters fall in love or combine, they still remain in their own world. Bai has never heard Ada's heart, looking at Ada's eyes he can't even feel Ada's heart like Stewart, he doesn't know what Ada is thinking - her rich, stubborn and powerful heart The world, he doesn't know anything. And what about Ada? Does she love Bo? No, it's probably just lust. The introduction to the film said that this is a story of compromising with reality through spiritual struggle and growth. Ada's feeling for Bai is actually a half-assistance in lust, accepting the other party's continuous love, and compromising with reality. Otherwise, after she was already with Bai, how could she still die for the piano so resolutely? Her last struggle was because she wanted to live by her own will, and had nothing to do with the world.
The introduction said that this is a female movie. I think I am afraid that I have been taught badly by the male-dominated society. I can't identify with the first look. Although the heroine and the hero are really good, the acting is also good, and the camera is very good. Music is great. Later, when I realized that I was not telling a love story, I was relieved. The movie is actually telling us that women should follow their own will, ignore the barriers of the environment, love each other, do what they want, pursue if they want, and don't talk if they don't want to talk.
It's just that I have been taught badly by the patriarchal society and I want to say something: I think that the world is not only divided into two parts of myself and others, and others are not irrelevant people who are completely excluded from their inner world, especially Those who love themselves deeply. So be considerate of others, and try to avoid scratching others' hearts when you have the courage to pursue them.

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The Piano quotes

  • George Baines: I want to lie together without clothes on.

  • George Baines: I have given the piano back to you. I've had enough. The arrangement is making you a whore, and me, wretched. I want you to care for me. But you can't. It's yours, leave. Go on, go.