The film "Golden Gate Bridge" is not top-notch in terms of skills and interviews. You can clearly see the shaking and out-of-focus of the lens, but from another perspective, it can also be called real and simple, reflecting a sense of wandering fate. . Even the widely acclaimed soundtrack is, in the final analysis, only a prescribed action for a documentary to exaggerate the atmosphere. Otherwise, why do you want everyone to keep watching for 90 minutes in front of such a heavy topic screen?
But I still want to recommend this movie, and I'm happy to discuss the questions that I hope to answer, but don't have answers, and don't necessarily have answers. (I think I’m so boring, but if I don’t do boring things, how can I have a life?)
In fact, when you eat, sleep, go to work, go to school every day, and watch entertainment gossip, you have never experienced ups and downs in life, and You really can't understand why some people end their lives by committing suicide when you haven't played a big drama in your heart. What I mean is, in fact, most of the people are similar, the appearance of the middle man, the wisdom of the middle man, not the elites at the top of the pyramid, but they have not fallen to the bottom of the society, and even the people at the bottom of the society have their own fun, when they are not satisfied When we have enough food and clothing, we are too lazy to think about "sense of value" and "life".
But it's them, those people who you think clearly have many friends and a decent family, and are talented enough to support them to survive or even live well, but one day they will automatically leave the world.
They are actually very sober, they are not stupid, you can say they are pessimistic, but if you are them, maybe you will understand the feeling of being overwhelmed by life, no matter how hard you try, you can't actually get out of the door.
One of the interesting points in the movie is that the friends of the suicide person are very contradictory. In the beginning, whether he was embarrassed or not, he should be more concerned, or respect his choice, even the choice to die.
A few years ago, I would have felt that this group of friends really did not fulfill their responsibilities, but now, I would say, don't blame yourself, that is his life, and he has the right to decide whether to continue or end it. No matter how close you are to him, you may not be able to help him, because you can't touch his dead end.
Is this harmful to parents, relatives and friends? Perhaps yes, facing the passing of someone who was once so closely related to your life, and in such an incomprehensible, vexatious way, does leave an endless stream of sad memories. However, if one cannot freely choose every step in life, at least one can have the freedom to quit the game.
This end does not deserve any kind of glorification, but the world in the eyes of the depressed person is really different from ours. And what we keep saying "wait a minute, hold on, it will be fine", sometimes we even think it is a lie. Has the world really changed for the better? Everyone has many problems that we cannot solve, how can we convince others to overcome this hurdle? "Empathy" is always just self-deception.
Those who are determined to seek death just can't wait to change, and have lost patience with their own failures.
As someone who wants to end his life by natural death, it is not necessarily stronger (because you have not experienced other people's pain), not necessarily wiser (otherwise why there are so many suicide geniuses), but only a little Enough is enough:
until you find meaning, be brave enough to accept the world's trolling. There is a lot of despair during this period. You can be serious and persistent, or you can play the role of a lover, and cultivate a little interest that has nothing to do with your core values. You can get rid of a lot of annoying nihilistic feelings and eliminate the fighting spirit to find fault with the surrounding.
Yes, those who live peacefully to the end are all eclecticists, brave or mediocre who can endure the passage of time.
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