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Love, it really takes courage
Monroe 2022-09-20 05:03:22
I remember reading a film review about "The Way We Were", which said: People often say that the person you spend your whole life with is often not the person you love most, the person you love most is the one you used up A person who will be missed forever. This sentence reminds me of a sentence of Zhuangzi: it is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes. Zhuangzi is a philosopher. He saw through the world and the so-called dog-blood love between an idiot man and a woman, and finally realized the truth. Many couples who end up breaking up will use this sentence to comfort themselves and each other in the end. But I really want to say, strive to be with the person you love the most, and forget about the person you love next. In the face of the love, why spend a lifetime to miss it, instead of spending a lifetime to realize the "friendship" with him? Helpless to leave a permanent regret? In love, some regrets can be avoided, we are going to strive for the best result, not to accept a not bad ending.
Extended Reading
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Katie Morosky Gardner: You'll never find anyone as good for you as I am, to believe in you as much as I do or love you as much!
Hubbell Gardner: I know that.
Katie Morosky Gardner: Well then, why?
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Katie Morosky Gardner: I don't have the right style for you do I?
Hubbell Gardner: No you don't have the right style.
Katie Morosky Gardner: I'll change.
Hubbell Gardner: No, don't change. You're your own girl, you have your own style.
Katie Morosky Gardner: But then I won't have you. Why can't I have you?
Hubbell Gardner: Because you push too hard, every damn minute. There's no time to ever relax and enjoy living. Every things too serious to be so serious.
Katie Morosky Gardner: If I push too hard it's because I want things to be better, I want us to be better, I want you to be better. Sure I make waves you have I mean you have to. And I'll keep making them till your everything you should be and will be. You'll never find anyone as good for you as I am, to believe in you as much as I do or to love you as much.
Hubbell Gardner: I know that.
Katie Morosky Gardner: Well then why?
Hubbell Gardner: Do you think if I come back its going to be okay by magic? What's going to change? What's going to be different? We'll both be wrong, we'll both lose.
Katie Morosky Gardner: Couldn't we both win?