Why are some people willing to be cheap in love?

Krystina 2022-03-23 09:02:23

"The Big Wedding" tells a very nonsense story, so in the ending, Darcy went to someone else's bed and had someone else's child, Rachel and Dex came together in a confused way, whether it was out of true love or real oppression. An imperfect and discordant non-fairy tale ending. All I can say is that the story before the end is more believable.
I absolutely hate the male lead Dex because obviously Dex's side-to-side swings are unacceptable to me. If the acquaintance and chatting with Rachel six years ago was really a joy from the heart, how could it be possible that because of Rachel's short-lived unresponsive state, it was directly transferred to Darcy and even reached the point of marriage. Maybe a man's vanity is to like this kind of charming, free and easy, fashionable, graceful woman, who is the focus wherever he goes, Darcy is always a beauty under the spotlight, and the reason why Dex did not exist many years ago Choosing Rachel, and using her as a spare tire after many years must have his own measurement and choice.
I love you, and I long to be your first choice forever, not the one you are always on call, silently guarding by your side, and feeling sad by yourself because of your joy and resentment. But reality is never so beautiful, and the desired fist choice will always become a spare tire. Some people say that the other party betrays you. There are only two kinds: she loves others more than you, others love her more than you love her, and either way, you have nothing to say. I think there are reasons for you to leave. There must be something wrong with us. Maybe the timing is not right, the fate is not enough, or we don’t love enough, because we all have more and better choices. With too many choices, you will be blinded and forget what you really need.
I think I understand Rachel's careful thoughts in the movie. Living under the aura of Darcy's beauty, she had to lose her pride and self-confidence easily. When she met someone she liked, she didn't know how to express her feelings. Fight for it, but I am afraid that my abrupt confession will lose my best friend and the opportunity to be friends with Dex. In such a plot, no matter who is the junior and superior, it doesn't really matter, because the ending is either betrayal of one's own heart or betrayal of one's friends, which is betrayal. If it wasn't for a hangover, she probably wouldn't understand that she couldn't get through without having an intersection with someone in her life.
Bold rebellion, but also pretending to be pointless struggles, secret dates, just hoping to fight for their own happiness. Why should one's own be taken away by others? At that time, he would have to hit the southern wall and jump into the Yellow River without looking back! Who cares who gets hurt? Instead, after repeated disappointment, he finally hurt himself. She started to give up, hid in the mild sunshine of England and woke up, guarding her was the silly man Ethan who had loved him for many years. At that moment, I really thought that the ending would end here. Love is in ups and downs, and the woman who has been hurt in the loneliness has someone who understands her and cherishes her, ending all the hurt lives, and the story instantly becomes good. Ethan said, "I have always loved you, and whenever you fall in love with someone, I love you even more; my love is not overwhelming. Whenever I fall in love with someone, I will only drink rosé champagne silently, and read the manuscript alone." Love". I think such a gentle man is more suitable for Rachel, who is sensitive and tender.
But the director of all evil arranged the bloody ending as I said at the beginning. How could it be just right, your lover's fiancee went to someone else's bed at the right time, and then your calm heart immediately ignited the hope that a spark of fire could start a prairie prairie. , and began a happy and happy life as expected. During this period, the person who was in the position obediently went home to give birth to a child. How unreliable this is! ! ! I don't think Rachel's mentality is wrong. Everyone wants to get what they couldn't get before, so she will be foolish to return to the arms of the man who swayed from side to side. But what happened to Darcy, shouldn't it be time to desperately defend his fiancé and keep his girlfriend from succeeding? ? ? How could he just fool around with others, pat his butt, and leave?
Because I have also had the experience of silently liking someone, but not admitting it to death. Therefore, I have always believed that no matter when and where, I should express my thoughts appropriately. Instead of betraying others in the future, it is better not to betray my heart at the beginning, and to express my heart without hesitation. It sounds fierce, but love in life is a process that requires you to get along with yourself. I love you, it's my own business, but it's also what I want to tell you. How you deal with this will is your business.
Why are some people willing to be cheap in love? Just look at Rachel and you will understand, because although this world is hypocritical and materialistic, you are my first choice, and I just want to have such a true love with you, to share with you. To build a land of wind and rain, maybe we can't stand the gossip, maybe we can't stand the reality and oppression, I still look forward to being cheap once, just for you, this is the love I give.

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  • Ethan: [about Dex] Oh my God. So when are you gonna tell him? Do you want me to tell him? I would love to tell him.

    Rachel: It's none of your business. I told Darcy to marry him. I'm bowing out.

    Ethan: Rachel, she just told you she's cheating. You want your opportunity, take it.

  • Ethan: I don't really get it. I don't get how you let her win all the time.

    Rachel: Wow.

    Ethan: Oh, no. "Wow" nothing. Because if the tables were turning, you'd think she'd let you win?

    Rachel: Will you stop? What is it with you two? Why do you hate her so much?

    Ethan: What are you talking about? I don't hate her. I hate the fact that you yield at her at every turn.