What are you thinking about while you wait?

Patsy 2022-03-24 09:02:30

Like the type of label it is labeled, this is a very light romantic comedy. The main line is so clear that you can almost guess from the beginning to the end. There are no turbulent plots, no secret foreshadowing, and no tears. Splashing joys and sorrows parting.
After watching this movie, you will only have one feeling, that kind of deja vu quietly entered your heart, and then quietly walked out, the pain of tearing is gone, the tangle of worrying has disappeared, but you will Involuntarily think of the past, the past, or the future.
The result of a long-distance relationship is that you have to take care of the person who is far away when it comes to other matters involving the opposite sex. Perhaps a very casual joke can make the other party jealous, so the long cold war or the roar of the receiver will cause you to become jealous. It will come one after another; in sad and unhappy days, no matter how the voice on the phone solves your worries, it can't hide the loss and complaints in your heart. The phrase "you can't understand me at all" has become a high rate of appearances in breakups in different places. the protagonist.
Compared with the era when Zhu Yingtai Liang Shanbo had to rely on letters to communicate, we have the Internet, the telephone, and all the means of communication that can "replace" meeting. "What are you doing?" This is a text message ; "Hey, how is your day?" This is a phone call; "I'm here, can you wait?" This is QQ; "Can you see me?" This is Skype. Every virtual meeting is ecstatic, the hormones in the body surge, and the brain will be pulled to the Pacific Ocean to surf by the happiness of this moment, and it will dream about sitting on the merry-go-round and swinging, all day long. Unhappiness and sadness seemed to be thrown away. Whether it was schoolwork or work, the whole TM was dragged to the back, "Bastards, stay away from me now!".
However, in-air communication has never been able to truly replace real touch and staring. When I turn off the phone and close the computer, the time returns to the established whirlpool and orbit. What just happened seems to be a dream show. Be the protagonist, be the director, and finally appreciate it narcissistically. Guys usually scratch their fluffy hair hard, then close their eyes, take a deep breath, and, in addition, those damn bad things that were fucked up before, are back.
The saddest thing about a long-distance relationship is the helpless waiting. So, what are you thinking about while you wait?
"Long Distance Love" mentions almost all the problems that long-distance relationships will encounter. For lovers: when will you come to see me? I'm sorry, I don't have time yet; for friends: you can't chat with her on your phone all day; for family members: you have a deep love for him, maybe he is having sex with a lot of women? In terms of returning to reality, the hard-working Chinese men need to devote more energy to their careers in the golden age. For women who are increasingly emphasizing independence, my career is equally important and refuses to give up, maybe a little bit. The difference in values ​​can cause the pain of quarrel, and no one is willing to compromise in this regard, and no one dares to persuade the other party to compromise. Everything in the future is unknown. You can't imagine what will happen in the future. Maybe one of them will go to another road in life. The huge sense of responsibility and guilt is enough to overwhelm any one with a strong heart. lovers.
After trying the taste of a long-distance relationship, the next long-distance relationship may start flat and end peacefully. The whole relationship is like a puddle of water. Occasionally throw a stone and it will give you waves and smiles, but most of the time , it just doesn't move. Only when the passion turns into a whisper, calm, perseverance, and restraint, can the balance between reality and imagination be maintained, and the fragile feelings can be maintained. Although you can't enjoy the burning taste of love, at least the ending can be easily Turn around and leave, parting ways can also be free and easy. But this is not something that everyone can wait and have patiently.
Sorry, tix r more than my net worth :-(

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    Corinne: And your dick's in your pants. That's good.