about love about growth

Lucinda 2022-03-23 09:01:49

The movie is not well done, because how many eyebrows are needed to express the emotions of these 20 years, it is not enough to extract a few scenes from each chapter of the novel. Outside of love, a story about growing up was pulled to pieces, and the remaining fragments touched my tears.

"i love you so much, i just don't like you any more." ----Em
my ignorant heart loves you hopelessly, but my rational mind rejects you calmly and indifferently, my tender touch With your inner fragility and childishness, my pride struggles to tear your outward vulgarity. What a terrible thing to be young and arrogant, let my grievances and your willful paranoia amplify a little bit, and explode in my heart like a balloon. How many years will it take for me to see the helplessness of each other clearly, to let go of my restraint, let go of my new love and go with you. Ten years or twenty years, suddenly a lifetime has passed.

"I need to speak to someone...not someone! You!" ----Dex
"For so many years, so many people have passed through my life, but why is it you? I hold such a heavy place in my heart." I'm a man who likes to live in pets and compliments. I know I'm not as smart as you, but I know I'm so good only when you're around.

"She makes you decent, and in return, you make her so~~~ happy." ---Ian
I love her, but she doesn't love me. I arrogantly gave her care and support, and selfishly trapped the two of them in that small apartment, but I didn't see the softness that I couldn't touch. I can do nothing for her happiness, but for her tomorrow I can give freedom.



‗Well let's not then. Let's just say that I think the best thing you could do is try and live your life as if Emma were still here. Don't you think that would be best?'
‗I don't know if I can.
‗Well you'll have to try.' He reaches for the remote control. ‗What do you think I've been doing for the last ten years?'

I am particularly moved by this paragraph. Dex's father is not a major character, but I like him very much, from the time he sits calmly and casually in the old man's chair handing the flat shoes to his well-dressed wife. He loves his family deeply and likes Em. He has been strict with his son for decades but gave him a boost at the most painful time of his life. Such seemingly cold words reminded Dex of the decades of love from his parents, his father's ten years of strength, his long life, and his now bruised, swollen face. Some people are always looking for pleasure to numb the pain, and some people are willing to let the pain settle slowly. I suddenly thought of the difference between the "thickness of temperament" that Yuan Mei said.


In fact, Dex has been chasing happiness, and Em has been chasing his heart, but it just happens that there is Dex in his heart. I wonder if the world is like this. In the first 20 years, the streets were full of Dex who wanted to roar, and the Em standing silently in the corner was not enough; in the next 20 years, the streets were full of sober Ems. , Dex, who has come to his senses behind the wine glass, is not enough.

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One Day quotes

  • Emma: I'll only be a minute. No playing with yourself while I'm gone.

  • Emma: Welcome to the graveyard of ambition.