love you silently

Deondre 2022-03-30 09:01:11


The soulful woman is never chatter, she must be deep and silent. It is the solemnity that relies on the energy nourished by the whole body to compete with the disturbance of the world, and still refuses to explain it to the end. In Il ya longtemps que je t'aime (Il ya longtemps que je t'aime), director Claudel constructed the entire plot with Juliette's own killing of her six-year-old son as the deepest secret, which is avoided under any circumstances. Events frame Juliette's present moment to the fullest, her understanding of the world, the people around her, and how it works. And death, the death given by one's own hands, in which its absolute desperation, which rejects dialectics, becomes an insoluble and unusable field, imprisoning a woman's soul. To a certain extent, the distance Juliette maintains from the world is the source of her strength that she will never forget, so she finally has to decide: how can silent mother love resist the forgetting that comes from trivial tenderness? When the unspeakable mother's love is complete and full of tension in a closed inner space, how can it endure the loose tenderness that it merges with the vast world?


Very typical french film. Looking at the world through the eyes of Kristin Scott Thomas, the world is neither chaotic nor frivolous. People and objects are solemn and contemplative. Juliette's situation made me try to understand Zhou Guoping and his Niu Niu again, the parents who I never forgave deprived their children of their lives for all kinds of aesthetic reasons. Innocent, they face the greatest punishment that a child's death can give. The guilt of forgetting is so deep that they cannot face each other.

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Extended Reading
  • Retta 2022-03-25 09:01:23

    Juliette is a woman who has returned to society after 15 years in prison. After being released on parole, her long-estranged younger sister Léa threw an olive branch to him, providing him with a place to live and helping him to integrate into the society step by step. Readjusting to life outside was difficult for Juliette because she had built an emotional and psychological wall between herself and the world around her. However, under the guidance and careful care of her younger sister and two nephews, Juliette, who was burdened with the condemnation of her conscience and the pain of losing her child, carefully opened her heart and slowly began to find a way back to the outside world. I have loved you for a long time, but not enough. Life and death are unavoidable. If it is related to close relatives, it will be more painful. Being strong and happy is always the best consolation for each other.

  • Letha 2022-04-02 09:01:15

    The heroine is also quite stubborn. She has too much burden on her own and refuses to give any explanation. I am very shocked, but I do not agree with the way she handles this issue.

I've Loved You So Long quotes

  • Léa: The novel's narration is impersonal and incomplete, as he refused to give one world view. He knows it's multiple, that intentions are multiple as are truths.

  • Léa: We were there! Didn't we matter?

    Juliette Fontaine: Do you think others matter then - that one cares what they think or do? You were all well and alive! You belonged to the kind one comes to hate for the mere fact that they are there.