If you lose your personality, when "I" no longer has "I" thoughts, and only knows how to act according to your requirements, and only know how to become what you like, does "I" count as "I"? ? The husbands in the movie are dissatisfied with the high rise of feminism at home, and they have changed the strong women's wives into beautiful dolls who only know how to dress up and can't read even deeper books. Every wife has become gentle and considerate, becoming the "super-perfect wife" in the minds of men. However, is this "super perfect" really "perfect"? If all you want is a "super perfect doll", why not just buy an electric doll? Did they suddenly become stronger after they got married? If not, why did you choose a strong girl as your wife instead of a girl who puts you first in everything?
No one can be truly perfect. The so-called love is actually learning to accept the other's shortcomings and appreciate the other's benefits. If you can only accept each other's good, but can't tolerate each other's bad, together, what is it for? Between people, in fact, it is nothing but a mutual choice. The person you choose is not necessarily the best in the world, because there is no "best" in this world. If you want to be "perfect", you will only distort your life. Walter ultimately didn't turn Joanna into a machine, which he said was because he "couldn't bear it." Do we really have to turn each other into our ideals in order to stop? Do you really want to obliterate the other person's personality and wash away his/her ego in order to be satisfied?
You have the right to choose. No one is forcing you to be with anyone. If you really decide to become a couple with the other party, why do you force the other party to change and become your own "dream lover"? There is no real perfection in this world. When you can accept the other's shortcomings, the person in front of you is the perfect one for you.
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