how to be an ordinary person

Frieda 2022-03-23 09:02:11

Some people say that the things and people the film tells are actually unusual, but I think what the film wants to talk about is the attitude that ordinary people should have when facing a major change in life.
Not only the influence of society, but the true thoughts of our hearts are often things that we are unwilling to admit and sometimes even unaware of.
I think the poorest one in the film is Beth. In the end, she failed to face her innermost thoughts, and tried her best to maintain a normal appearance. Just like Conrad's patient in the hospital, she was reluctant to admit that she had not gotten rid of it before. She tried to pretend that she was fully recovered. When she was about to leave for the last time with Conrad, her shouting so loudly exposed her real psychological fear.
We all have our weaknesses, but why do we all act so strong that we lose ourselves?
People say that trivial life can make people change. I admit this, but it is really difficult to grasp in what direction to change and in which place to maintain the original self.
Ordinary people of my generation are often pushed away, and always forget the self that we used to be, the self that we yearn for and are unfamiliar with...

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  • Harley 2021-12-21 08:01:21

    Although the plot seems plain and tasteless, who says that life in the world is not like this? The problems that some people can easily cope with have become an insurmountable gap for others; a seemingly harmonious and peaceful life may sometimes contain huge problems. . . In general, I think this movie still has some reference significance.

  • Jerad 2022-03-24 09:02:13

    Just simply talking about the psychological trauma left by the family facing the dead brother, the pattern of the plot, this contradiction will inevitably follow the other, the scene of the death must be flashbacks, there must be friends, psychiatrists, girls, etc., and finally Reconciliation, zooming out, boring.

Ordinary People quotes

  • Calvin "Cal" Jarrett: Well, don't admire people too much. They'll disappoint you sometimes.

  • Jeannine: Can you ever break the ball?

    Conrad "Con" Jarrett: You can't break the ball. Can't break the floor. Can't break anything in a bowling alley. And that's what I like about bowling alleys. Can't even break the record.