There is always a lack of a sincere man beside a successful woman!

Laila 2022-03-23 09:02:26

From the madness of leftover women, I saw interesting social phenomena. Modern women's concept of marriage is different from the dream moment when women always dreamed of getting married. If modern women do not have the option of marriage, they now have their own ways to organize their families.

In fact, in China, the age of marriage is also getting higher and higher. According to the data disclosed by the Shanghai Civil Affairs Bureau on January 12, the average marriage registration age of residents is 32.05 years old for men and 29.38 years old for women. It is 32 years old for men and 29.6 years old for women. From the above data, the age of marriage has actually gradually moved up in recent years, and the age of marriage in Hong Kong and Taiwan has also gradually increased, and the data is similar to that in Shanghai. In addition to the phenomenon of late marriages, there is also an obvious downward trend in the odds rate. While pursuing economic development, the more developed the city, the more and more empty the emotional world.

So the artificial insemination done by Zoe, maybe a few In China after 2009, it's not surprising. In the
film, Zoe played by Jennifer Lopez is a model of a successful woman who runs a pet store by herself. The key factor is that there is always a lack of men around, a man who really gives. So Zoe decides to skip this process and go straight to the step of starting a family.

Later, she meets a person who is willing to be part of her family, played by Alex O'Loughlin Stan. The two got together at a very fast pace, and then the plot focused on how scary a pregnant woman is for a man, no wonder men always have an affair when their wife is pregnant, I think Zoe put that hysteria The annoyance of the two is vividly displayed, irritable, suspicious, and even gave up the relationship between the two at the end. When I see this, I believe that many girls must have a relationship with each other, because women, whether pregnant or not, sometimes I don't know if it's hormones or too much pressure, but there is always the ability to drive men crazy.

I read an interesting quote from Taiwanese writer Hu Zhiyi before, but I don't remember the original text very well. The main idea is like this: "Some people say that a woman is like a cat, only when she is happy is petted; others say that a woman is like an eagle. , the decision to do is to say one is one; some people say that women are like owls, quiet, wise and smooth. But no matter which kind, these three animals seem to prefer to be alone.” These simple words are vivid and vivid. It describes the contradictory and incomprehensible nature of women. They are usually in a sunny mood, but thunder and rain all of a sudden, because of some small details that the boy didn't pay attention to or a wrong sentence.

It's just that I think it's really hard to meet a caring girl like Stan in reality, so I think girls should relax, don't study and care about every word, sometimes a look A small action will resolve all unhappiness, and cherishing each other's sincerity is the most important thing.

This movie is suitable for weekend afternoons, make a vanilla latte, bake a few chocolate muffins, whether you are single or watching with your significant other, or even spending time with your sisters (boys can also get some beer and study girls with friends) I believe it will be a very fulfilling and happy afternoon. After reading it, the whole person will think positively about marriage and the definition of love between men and women, which can reduce our emotional emptiness and sense of loss in recent years, so that we can look forward to the present or the future. The beauty of the next relationship.

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The Back-up Plan quotes

  • Baby Store Sales Clerk: [Looking at baby strollers] It's a bit overwhelming huh?

    Stan: There are so many and they are so... big!

    Baby Store Sales Clerk: Well they have to be big, 2 babies right?

    Stan: Yeah but babies are small, these are for like giant mutant babies

    Baby Store Sales Clerk: Well you should see some of the babies that come in here, total fatasses

  • Playground Dad: It's awful, awful, awful. Then a small moment happens, that's so magical. That makes it all worthwhile.