Dear Mary, sow in the spring

Alessandra 2022-03-23 09:03:24

The movie starts with too much dialogue, the plot seems to be very bland, Chubby feels very boring, and goes to bed early. But I insisted until the end, maybe it had something to do with the two cups of hot tea in the slanting wind and drizzle vegetable garden, maybe it had something to do with the kitchen full of bottles and jars, maybe it had something to do with the changing flowers in the vase...

Thinking of Zheng Zhihua's "Your Birthday", "Some people in this world have nothing, and some people have too much." There are some people who seem to have been abandoned by God, living alone and down, without even a single person to speak to. Such as Mary; or talking, but still lonely, such as Ronnie.
Did God give up on them, or did he give up on himself?
Is it because of fate or because of your own choice?

The four seasons in the movie seem to correspond to life. In spring, what kind of seeds you sow, what kind of fruits you reap in autumn, this may be the reason why Tom and Jerry's family is warm and happy.
At the end, I looked at Mary's confused eyes, and I felt very sad. I really wanted to say to her: When spring comes, let's grow some vegetables, learn to cook, learn to love yourself, and don't just accept tomatoes from others. Well, everything will slowly get better!
Birth, old age, sickness, and death, none of which can be controlled by ourselves, but there are always some things that we can do, right?

Also, about time. I remember it was in the "summer" period, when friends got together to talk about the past, and it was easy to think of themselves. Life keeps giving us different identities, and the focus of life shifts unknowingly. Friends have gradually changed from intimacy to alienation, and gradually lost contact. Some are just more space distance, while others are more heart distance. Really frustrating.

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Another Year quotes

  • Mary: I'm very much a glass-half-full kind of girl. But it's tricky, because... I meet these older men who want somebody younger, and that's great, because I fit the bill. But... when they find out that... you know, I'm not as young as they thought, they don't want to know. My looks work against me.

  • Gerri: Life's not always kind, is it?

    Mary: No, it isn't Gerri.

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