In this movie, homosexuality is just a kind of love, just like "first love", "transnational love" and "year-old love", it is a form of love. Because of this, this kind of family also enjoys the family relationship that all families should have (they can enjoy the fun of raising children), and also faces the confusion faced by all families: education differences, lack of identity caused by one party being too strong, temptation by a third party Even sexual dissatisfaction and so on. This film no longer regards homosexuality as the object of curiosity or peeping. This kind of peace of mind is worthy of our attention. "Whether I am gay or not, I will defend your rights as gay to the death", this is the progress of human beings and animals - true equality of mind and mutual respect.
Why Nick slept with the donor Paul, it is undeniable that there is an instinctive element of penis worship, but more, it is still "not recognized". The whole family needs Jules' financial support. In this lesbian family, we have interestingly seen the "male dominance". It seems that the difference between men and women is no greater than the difference between human beings-in any relationship, especially in marriage, competing for the initiative Power always exists, regardless of gender. When Jules realized this, she made improvements. She took the initiative to lead her family to visit Paul's house, and even observed and understood Paul's hobbies. Through a record they had all heard, she made a mental gesture to Paul. It can be said that , Jules has indeed taken on the responsibilities of men in this family - more responsible, more tolerant, more conscious and progressive. Nick's problem actually corresponds to the part of women in marriage - the decline of ability, the gradual inability to adapt to the society, the resulting low self-esteem, and the emotional and impatient boredom of the same. In the end, Nick's words of apology to the whole family classically condensed the essence of American ethics drama - "Marriage is crawling through shit year after year, in which you age, consume, persevere, and slowly you can't see others. , only see a shadowy projection of yourself. So you're hot-headed and doing the wrong thing. That's what I am. But I love Jules, I love this family, it's the truth, it's the truth. I love you guys, forgive me."
The film is full of jokes, full of characters, American warmth and the taste of suburban life throughout it. The film has always emphasized indifference - "Like heterosexual marriage, there is a tower of Babel for communication; homosexual sperm donation children are like ordinary families, and cannot bear the destruction of a third party, even if the third party is blood. Father; gay marriage, like all long-term marriages, requires mutual recognition of intimacy, and unbalanced recognition allows for temptation, and marriage is a competition.”
See Paul because of Jules’s line—“This is It’s my home, not yours, I want the warmth of my family to give and find it myself!” Depressed and frustrated, I can feel the 50-year-old man who is still dating a hot girl longs for a family. Yes, this is another indifference: those who don't follow the rules will finally want to return home.
Even if only from one family consisting of Lara.
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