Many times this is the way to get acquainted with some movies that make me full of joy after watching. Not on purpose, but by chance.
Asperger's Syndrome. The term that I have never heard of is a kind of person, like a straightforward person, a stingy person, a simple person, but maybe the characteristics are more complicated. It's just that he doesn't know how to communicate with so-called normal people, he has a high talent in some aspects, and he may also have some obsessive-compulsive disorder. . . They are destined to have different lives.
Adam lives alone in his own world, and it is fate that he meets Beth.
Before I was wondering if everyone would have a her or him made just for him or her. They do all sorts of things before meeting each other, all in preparation for the appearance of the other person, and then two people will eventually be pulled together by an invisible rope, and they will look at each other and laugh. Yes, they are a perfect match.
But after watching today's movie, I suddenly felt that there should be no one in this world who is 100% match made for whom. Maybe fifty or sixty percent at most, maybe because God also wants to see some accidents. He arranged for these fifty to sixty percent match people to meet each other, and then sit down and see what accidents will happen.
Adam and Beth are probably just two of them.
When Adam says straight out: Were you sexually excited? Beth certainly doesn't understand, she just gets scared. She could just turn around and leave right away, instead of being curious to hear Adam explain what Asperger's Syndrome is.
When they first met, two people who were not the most suitable people had a curiosity about each other, and it was this curiosity that kept the story going. Slowly, we will make a lot of effort unconsciously and try our best to understand what kind of person she or he is? Then we have to see if there are some coincidences to push it. It seems that there are crises in the movie to be able to play such a role. In reality? I do not know either.
Adam and Beth both know that each other is very different from themselves, but they are both willing to work hard for each other to change.
This process must be quite painful, because it is scary for everyone to leave their world. But it doesn't matter, at such a painful time, having the other person help me evolve into, um, it can't be said that it is a better person, it can only be said that it is a person who is more suitable for each other. But relying solely on this kind of help may not be enough, and ultimately you need to take those most critical steps yourself.
My favorite part of the film is when Adam heard Beth's mother's message, stuffed the roses he just bought into a thick cotton coat, put on a hat, and walked into the snow alone, he was doing his best to get out of his own world , trying to walk in the direction of Beth. When I find you, I'll find me.
But such a step didn't seem to let him really enter the world with Beth until he finished his speech at the observatory a year later and said to Carol: Would you like me to help you ?
I believe that at that time, they have entered the world of two people and become a 100% perfect match.
Did you meet your her or him? Or are you trying to be a perfect match?
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