If you meet her before the age of 20, please cherish her

Preston 2022-03-23 09:02:00

"Heartbeat" is not just a movie about love, or even about love.
The war between men and women, oh, that's always there, in youth and adulthood.
But this is a movie about growing up.

The formation of character first comes from the family. Obviously, the very different atmospheres of Julie and Bryce's families perfectly illustrate this point. A life that is encouraged and a life that is beaten create completely different personalities.
Bad parents cover up their failures and vent on their children with an alternative force. Little Bryce already has most of the characteristics of his father. If he hadn't met Julie, the little Bryce would have lived as well when he grew up. He lived the same life as his father, pretending to be majestic, to disguise his cowardice by attacking others, and lived a pitiful and pathetic life.
However, Bryce was lucky and he met Julie.

The formation of character, the second comes from the TA you meet.
If you met when you were young and she chose you, please cherish it.
How dangerous it is to fall in love with a boy of the same age. She takes the best years to take on the old age and the various risks in the future, just because she wants to wait for the future you. So go with you.
It is almost universal truth that girls of the same age are more mature than boys. A man can accept a woman who is naive than himself, but most women cannot accept a man who is naive than him. She chooses you of the same age, which shows that she recognizes certain characteristics of you. They come to reality in the most emotional way possible. Not now, but in the future.
If after the age of 20, she has been with you and never left, then you should cherish her even more.
After years of getting along, she still hasn't given up, which shows that the part of you she chose did not disappoint her. To love someone, you must love all of them. This is just saying that you love someone because of their merits. If you continue to love someone, it's just because all of them can't hide the brilliance of their merits, she thinks. Even accepting or putting up with the shortcomings is worth it.
part, with, whole.
Therefore, you who are loved by her are not perfect and have nothing to show off. Her love is encouragement, tolerance, mutual support, and mutual growth, not a capital that allows you to show off in front of strange women.

Most guys are as lucky as Bryce to meet a girl who makes them grow. However, not all boys can discover and cherish.

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  • Chet Duncan: Some of us get dipped in flat, some in satin, some in gloss, but every once in a while you find someone who's iridescent, and once you do, nothing will ever compare.

  • Juli Baker: [on why she's interested in Bryce] I guess it's something about his eyes... or maybe his smile.

    Richard Baker: Well, what about him?

    Juli Baker: What?

    Richard Baker: You have to look at the whole landscape.

    Juli Baker: What does that mean?

    Richard Baker: A painting is more than the sum of its parts. A cow by itself is just a cow, a meadow by itself is just grass, flowers... and the sun peeking through the trees is just a beam of light, but you put them all together... and it can be magic.