If you are a man, you want to earn money to support your family, you try to give your family the best material life, you put on armor, you think you are a superman, and in a materialistic society, you try your best to find your place; at the same time, you Your family is looking forward to your warm greetings, your little concern, and hope that you will fulfill your responsibilities as a husband and father. Between the two, there is always a minority that can be unified and harmonious.
If you are a woman, you have to take care of your husband and children, you get up on time every day, and then the roles of "wife" and "mother" are reversed day and night; however, you are eager to realize your own value, you are looking for An answer, an answer to the eternal human question of who am I. Maybe you have been overwhelmed, because many times, you can't have both.
If you are a child, you wake up one morning and find that your favorite mother has left you. From now on, you will have to live with this father who doesn't usually care about you. When you and your father finally stumble through the break-in period, Just as you're about to take big strides toward the happy life of two single men, the mom you've been thinking about all the time turns around and wants to take you away from your dad. daddy or mommy? it's a problem!
Life teaches us a very important lesson, it's A or B, choose one.
Many times, we involuntarily fall into a state of self-denial and doubt, not knowing whether our decision is the right one, because life is always imperfect, after choosing A, you think B will be better, but choosing B may not necessarily be is the best answer. Sometimes, if you make a wrong choice, you can go back, but more often, you can't reunite with a broken mirror. If you choose A, you will definitely lose B. If you choose B, you will definitely lose A. With such a difficult choice, how do you deal with it? In this regard, I believe more in the saying that while God closes the door for you, he also opens another window for you. Now that you have made a decision, tell yourself that I have lost and I have gained.
And life teaches us the second lesson, and the most important lesson, that truth is priceless.
The reason why this film is touching is not the struggle between women's rights and men's rights, nor the choice of the protagonist is right or wrong, but as Mr. Lu Xun said, tearing apart the beautiful things in the world for you to see. .
At the end of the story, when the wife took custody, and the child said tearfully, "If I don't like it, can I go home?" We, the spectators, almost shed tears of sadness.
Unexpectedly, the last scene turned a corner, the wife voluntarily gave up the guardianship she had obtained, and the expression of her husband's overjoyed expression still lingered in front of my eyes.
If anyone would think this was a happy ending, I really have nothing to say. The cute little boy in the film, no one thought about him from the beginning to the end. When he wanted his mother, his mother left; when he wanted to stay with his father, his mother came back and took away his father; in the end, his father came back Well, my mother still can't be with me. Perhaps what he needs most in his heart is "If Mommy finds out, she will marry you again."
When we were children, we always wanted to grow up early, so that we could be like our parents and participate in it. Go to the world of adults; when we really grow up, we find that we used to be involuntarily, and at this time, it still has not changed.
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