love is simple? No, love is complicated...

Barton 2022-03-23 09:02:02

Some people say that love is very simple. There are two results under this proposition. One is to love only one person in a lifetime. Usually, this lifetime is really a bit short. Another is to focus on loving someone for a period of time, usually controlled by time.

There are more and more choices, and some people will have to choose phobias, leave it to God to arrange, and see which is which with a smear of eyes. Some people have the effect of blind choice syndrome, like in a game of cards, constantly changing cards, always expecting the next card to be what you want. Too many people don't know what they want, and they make all kinds of favorites in the process of constantly changing cards. No matter how the love song is sung over and over again, no matter how heart-wrenching the movie is, no matter how amazing the story you hear, when you think about your life, whether to choose a card or create opportunities to keep dealing cards, everyone I have a bottom in my heart.

In the categories under the big categories, there are all the "like" tags, and various "likes" are used to generate "favorites", and then countless categories of "favorites" PK, I really don't know which is the "favorite". What can only be determined is that A is the "favorite" in this stage, and becomes B in the next stage. Repeatedly, various "favorites" appear in turn to form a life puzzle.

When a person faces thousands of people, he also begins to have a ranking order in his heart. Female singers love Faye Wong, male singers love Eason Chan; female film stars love Meryl Streep, male film stars love Johnny Depp... What? Must choose one? Don't do that, it's so boring! Otherwise, I can say who the director likes the most, who the screenwriter likes the most...

why choose? There are so many choices!

Love is complicated, and the essence of complexity lies in the impact you choose to face, and this is not your decision!

When watching "sex and the city 2", I was left with a question: why do you still need to be cautious and uneasy when you are 50 years old? I thought that the temperament and experience of that age were enough to resist all open guns and dark arrows. "Legend of the Sea" is a testament to my idea. Those interviewers who were over 500 years old had the graceful bearing and calmly smiled at the past. "Love Is Complicated" answers my question: People are cautious and restless until they die. Perhaps the experience value is approaching its peak, but the countervailing power should not be underestimated. When you know all the possible outcomes of most things, you will hesitate at the critical moment of choice. But for the ignorant fearless, their self-soothing effect will be more effective!

Lastly, I love Meryl's mom, and even though I'm not a cool mom like her, it doesn't stop me from being a cool mom, right?

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It's Complicated quotes

  • Jake: [Discussing Jane's lack of a bikini wax] You've gone native. I dig it.

  • Jake: Is it really necessary for you to always say no before you say yes?