Just like the little girl who used to cry over the dead puppy, one day she also learned to keep a distance from those small animals, not to touch them, not to invest her feelings, and learned to have an attitude that has nothing to do with herself.
Sad and tired. Once put in, it is hard to catch water. The happier you are, the more vaguely there is fear. As Jimmy said, "When I am happy, I feel slightly apprehensive. When I laugh, I am moved to tears. I can't believe in pure happiness. I am both calm and uneasy about the ups and downs of life.
" , Today's pain is part of the happiness of the past, this is the promise of that life!
Buddhism always says that the four elements are all empty, always annihilating desire, strangling hope, and then seeking detachment - training is the physical and mental invulnerability. Christianity also says that everything is vanity and everything is chasing after the wind, but after all, it admits that we are all weak and powerless people, suffering will still be painful, grief will still be grief, and all we need is comfort and redemption.
Many times, we can't save others and we can't save ourselves!
Wang Yi wrote about a mother during World War II in "Father's Requiem". After her husband Nogami was arrested for his anti-war remarks, he worked hard and tenaciously to raise two daughters. Daughter Terumi comforted her mother by the bedside, saying, "Mom, you will see Dad." This hard-working mother insisted on saying the last words of her life, "I don't want to be in the next life, I want to see my living husband in this life." Emotions piled up for two hours, bursting out at the last second. Terumi burst into tears, because her mother had endured her whole life, but she was unwilling to die. Because what was deprived half a century ago, half a century later, is still so heartbroken. It turned out that what was taken away was not only this life, but also the hope of eternity.
When I saw it, I couldn't help but feel emotional.
Sometimes life is more dramatic than drama.
During the Chinese New Year, I heard a story about a sister. She is the daughter of an aunt she knows. She is a teacher, divorced, and lives with a daughter. She has a house and a car, and has no worries about food and clothing. A male friend waited (chased) for her for ten years. From before she got married until after her divorce, from a poor boy with no money to a boss worth millions, he has been waiting for her. They are very good friends, and after this sister's divorce, he has been taking care of the mother and daughter, and is very kind to her daughter. Then, this sister never promised him (she has been divorced for 3 or 4 years). Until last year, this sister told him that I would give you a year to find a girlfriend. If you haven't found one this year, I will promise you. As a result, he stayed at home for a year, waiting to marry her. In this way, I plan to have a wedding after this year. Everything seems to be developing in the direction of perfection. On the second day of the new year this year, an unfortunate incident happened. Her boyfriend was seriously injured when he set off fireworks at home and was sent to the hospital for emergency treatment. He died on the fifth day of the new year.
After hearing this, I didn't know what to say for a long time, and I didn't know how that sister should face all this.
Suffering is a blessing in disguise. Its profoundness is that it needs to be experienced in person, and how many people can withstand this experience? Ugh
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