I found that the two films have one thing in common, that is, her two husbands in the film cherished their wife and family more because they experienced the feeling of being lost and found again. The difference is that one was an accident and the other was carefully planned. Here comes the question. Is it really the good side of human nature, the precious side, that is the virtue? In the film, when I knew my son was crushed and said I shouldn't scold him, I think it should be about the matter. If you should be nice to him, you should keep being nice to him, and if you make a mistake, you can't be tolerant because of pity. Whether to take scolding or other means is no longer discussed.
Why wait until he feels lost before starting to regret it? And maybe there is still resentment even for the moment before the disaster? Is this really a cutting machine? So (the following contains spoilers) in Butterfly on a Wheel, she actually spent so much thought and took so much risk to plan and implement such a show just to let her husband taste the pain of loss (I initially thought it was the company's treatment of him promotion assessment), and at the same time eager to give her a chance to do it all over again.
In most cases, the disasters we encounter are lost and never come back, so we should try our best to keep calm when the opportunity comes, and try to solve it before the disaster comes, instead of relying on the disaster as a booster, otherwise its effect Maybe not too long. Therefore, you can't learn to cherish it by getting it back. If you have such an opportunity, then silently thank God for giving you this opportunity. If you don't get it back, don't despair. And when there is no such opportunity, you should always remind yourself to cherish the present. If there is a problem, you must face it calmly and solve it patiently. Otherwise, the fundamental contradiction cannot be solved by the moment of recovery alone. What's more, in most cases, if you lose it, you will never be able to return the bird~.
relationships based on extreme circumstances never work out---(speed of life and death)
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