- watch "Break Up Men and Women"
A girl chased by a hot dog, three lemons will separate you.
"Never buy a work of art if it's not something you absolutely want. You know, it doesn't matter who painted it or its value. I mean, you've got to live with it every day, and you've got to live with it every day. After. You know, you have to really love it, you have to really appreciate it, it's almost like choosing a spouse." This is actually Brooke's concept of love, and the movie "Break Up Men and Women" does not explain how she and Gary got together. The process, only at the beginning of the film is a scene of how Gary caught Brooke's attention with a hot dog at the baseball stadium. So I don't know if Gary is a necessity for Brooke, if she really appreciates it, or if it's just because of his rhetoric that she can't say no. In fact, personally I don't like Gary's eloquent man, even though he's really good at picking up girls.
But the next guide commentary got me to appreciate Gary, and then the three lemons sparked some rift between Brooke and Gary, and after an awkward family dinner, a long-planned quarrel ensues. It is said that it has been planned for a long time, because Brooke and Gary must have accumulated a lot of depression and dissatisfaction in the process of getting along, because getting along with men and women is a process of mutual running-in and compromise, and there are bound to be some problems in this process. The quarrel was sudden and natural.
"If you can do what I tell you to do, that's great, and it's even better if you can do what I tell you to do before I tell you." What women struggle with is that everything I do is for the sake of you, and what have you done for me? You still don't care about me. Men sometimes feel very innocent and aggrieved. You say that you don't like flowers, but you are angry that I didn't buy you flowers, but when I do buy you flowers, you will scold me for being wasteful. Of course, the woman is also wronged, why is that person always unable to tell which of what she said is the opposite and which is the positive. In fact, it is quite difficult for men, an inherently thick-lined, single-celled species, to sort out such esoteric issues. Because there is another very important problem, that is, women, in fact, they don't know what they want. Saying they love you one second and ignoring you the next is just a privilege they have as women.
This quarrel is exactly the same as the quarrel at the beginning of "PS I Love You". God knows, everything she and he did was just to be angry with each other. They wanted the other party to surrender first and say what they cared about, but this actually only proved that they also cared about each other so much, so it became more and more difficult and the situation became more and more serious. The more serious it is, the more it will lose control in an irreversible direction.
Why do men and women break up? Maybe it’s just like in the movies, because the so-called self-esteem can’t be put down because of a momentary anger, maybe it’s because there are some friends who are not suitable to talk to each other, and overnight a household quarrel turned into an international dispute. Everyone knows it.
So the breakup was caused little by little. This was a vicious circle. The result of the war was that the two people were hurt more and more deeply. Quarrel and then listen to some self-righteous advice from others, those friends who only give bad ideas make the two more depressed and angry, and then continue to quarrel, oh, my ladygaga.
Women don't really want to hurt their men, because they hurt Sometimes they will be more uncomfortable, but they are still angry but still deliberately do things that hurt them, imagine how they are hurt, and when a man is not as hurt as they think, they can easily go crazy . Because in their logic, you don't get hurt, it means you don't love me. So he intensified, and continued to stab the other party's sore spot to the point of hurting himself.
A few years later, you may not be able to recall the reason for the quarrel. It is nothing more than trivial matters, but the hurt caused by the quarrel will never be forgotten. Just having love between a man and a woman is not enough. "Few strong relationships can withstand repeated shocks. The first time there is a millimeter of sadness, the second time there is a centimeter of dissatisfaction, the more times, the more and more estrangements and distances. It may be far away, and the parties may not be able to understand why they are like this today." Therefore, there must be communication and calm communication. After all, being together is a matter of two people.
I was surprised how they could really break up. I thought it would be the same as "PS I Love You". The quarrel was just a quarrel. Although at the end of the movie, both of them have a wonderful new life, why do I still have such deep regrets.
2010-6-27
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