This is how I felt after watching the movie "SHALL WE DANCE". I have never been interested in dancing, because it feels like it's always a matter of two or more people. And I'm more used to being alone. Eat alone, write letters alone, travel alone, and tell yourself, look, you can actually do well alone. I always feel that people can fulfill themselves in the end, and those who can satisfy themselves are ultimately themselves. Therefore, many people are naturally rejected and this rejection is more like an escape from oneself. To avoid others' trust in me, to avoid dissatisfaction with myself. In fact, the protagonist of the movie is also the same, that's why he didn't ask for anything on his birthday, so he kept all the unhappiness in his heart, and that's why he finally bravely entered the dance classroom. And many of us never have that courage in our lives. So even when there are many people around we still feel lonely. Because it's like a solo dance on a dark stage, they sit under the stage, and when the dance is over and the lights go out, they can't see you, and you can't see anything.
The most moving scene in the movie is when the hero's wife asks the detective he hired: "Why do people get married?" Why? I also thought about this before, because of loneliness? Because of loneliness? But many people have a good time alone! It gives me the best answer at this moment in the film: We need to be witnessed. There are billions of people in the world, if there is no one to witness for you, then what's the point of your existence at this moment? So at the end of the movie, the huge banner under the dance school; the protagonist's affectionate confession; it's just a continuation of this moment. When we walk into the hall of marriage holding another person's hand, we are actually giving our life to him to witness. This kind of testimony is that when the curtain falls, we can still have someone watching your eyes, so that you will no longer feel lonely.
Finally, the movie ends with a cheerful dance, which actually has a strong moral. In fact, we should also end each other's lives with a happy dance. Although we may step on each other's feet in the middle, we will make the dance partner fall due to our own mistakes, and even make our dance partner embarrassed like the hero in the movie. But what is it! Just like Al Pacino said in his movie: "Tango is not like life if you take a wrong step, you can't start again. If you fall, stand up and jump, it is much simpler than life." But can't life be like this, Although we have quarreled, misunderstood, hurt each other, but I believe we can still muster the courage to stand up and end him with the most beautiful dance, right?
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