"Sadik, you don't talk much. Is this a difference between urban and rural areas? Even if you say yes, I won't believe it. This is your hometown!"
"Hometown, hometown, hometown. understanding..."
"We've all dreamed of getting out of here, remember? You made it, I didn't, I want to ask you something. At least you're the one who tried, as the one who dared not try. Man, do you think I've really missed a lot? . . . After so much, if you had to choose again, would you choose to go or stay?"
"I don't know, I guess, I'll put it here Take them all away, and bring back all that is there. Do you know what the hardest thing is? It's the middle state." The
friend didn't ask any further, but sang a gentle ballad, and Sadik thought a little. Yes, sadik thought.
When I was young, I didn’t know what an ideal was. I learned from the mouths of the elders that an ideal is a beautiful thing. Most people’s ideals are far away from them.
When I was young, I found my ideal, in order to realize it. , packed his bags, bid farewell to his parents, and rushed to a foreign country without hesitation;
after several years of cold and summer, he had his own home and his own children, but he was not happy, and he found that his so-called ideal was just a Obsession -
"I used to think that I was fighting for the country, but this country doesn't care at all."
In fact, sadik, among the thousands of people in this country, only your family really cares about you. Your father said,
"That guy didn't make a good son first"
This sentence is not a condemnation of your abandoning your family business, but a helplessness for you to abandon your family and pursue your own ideals. However, you didn't understand at that time, you didn't understand your selfishness at that time, and you didn't understand how important family love was. Only when your wife died and you were tortured in prison for sticking to your ideals, and returned home with a serious illness, did you truly understand: For an ordinary person, abandoning the ideal of family love, no matter how noble it is, will ultimately lead to All are worthless obsessions. Because for an ordinary person, the real audience in his life is only his relatives. Only his relatives will applaud heartily for the wonderful things in his life, and only his relatives will be deeply worried about the disappointments in his life.
"I will take everything here and bring everything back there."
Sadik, you must have woken up when you said this.
The purpose of struggle is to make life better for those who love you and those you love. Of course, everyone can have their own pursuits, but isn’t it too selfish to realize self-worth at the cost of giving up family love? Is it too selfish? Is it overkill? To make those who love us and those we love happier is where our happiness lies and is the premise of all personal goals.
Come out to mix, to pay back, to those who love us, our better, deeper love.
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