Who can I be with?

Grayce 2022-03-23 09:02:44

Talked to Mr.s and Hyde about the movie over drinks on Saturday night. I said this was the best romance movie I've ever seen in 2009, but I drank too much at the time, and it described it as a mess. It is raining today, which is suitable for recalling this movie.

Summarized in one sentence: This is a combination of Xiao Wu Guai and Rain Man. Although the two lovers in the film are adults, their previous love was as transparent and beautiful as two children. Although Adam has the same mental problems as Dustin Hoffman in Rain Man, he is as "silly" as Dustin Hoffman, and they are far more worthy of love than most healthy people.

There are no big-name actors, gorgeous costumes, and well-designed backgrounds in the film, which can make people feel the story better, and better understand the inner thoughts of the characters in the film. Whether for healthy people or people with mental problems, as long as we grow up, we are indoctrinated, or we naturally think that love is beautiful, but love is fleeting. We have to consider the problem of distance, we have to consider the problem of reality, we have to consider the problem of background, and so on and so on. However, after this series of questions, is the love really love? After this series of questions, when I love you say it, do we really mean it from the heart?

Only the love of a child is the most selfless, the most relentless, and the least tainted by the dust of the world. It is a pity that a person's wishful thinking cannot compete with the world. This will eventually end in tragedy.

Most of the comments said that although the hero and heroine broke up at the end of the film, at least Adam taught the heroine what love is, and the heroine taught Adam how to live a strong life. But does love have to be learned in this way? After becoming strong, people who will no longer feel heartache after experiencing countless breakups will finally get love.

In my opinion, the most moving part of the film is not to learn to love and learn to be strong, but just because of Adam's innocence, that innocence and beauty make people feel distressed.

ps: Tips for watching the movie, please prepare a lot of tissues at the beginning of the movie, just in case you need it.

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Adam quotes

  • [last lines]

    Beth Buchwald: Adam, his mother, and his father were a family of talking raccoons that lived in the middle of New York City. They didn't really belong there, but there they were.

  • Harlan: Liars is all you gonna run across in this world. A man's gotta learn the difference between just plain liars and liars worth lovin'.

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