Lost Child's Heart

Sylvia 2022-03-22 09:01:57

When a movie story wants to talk about complicated issues, it has to worry that it may be incapable of turning complicated issues into too simple in a short period of time. Therefore, you need to pay attention to "Love is Complicated", this story must not have any conclusion of love, otherwise you will not be able to appreciate the complexity of emotions, leaving too much uncertainty for the audience, and the "love" shown should be like Straw, vaguely swaying around people's hearts. Don't show the flaws and see the person who wrote the script pretending to be a bisexual emotional psychologist. Fortunately, the story is not so exaggerated. The most interesting thing in the movie is whether the couple from the past can reunite after their youth to become the attraction of the story, and whether they still have the ability to love, so this is a very good theme. Movie. I think it is also suitable for young and middle-aged people who suddenly think of each other after breaking up for many years. It is more suitable for a person like me whose parents have been divorced for many years, when now my parents are pulled to a table for dinner because of their grandchildren. Three generations are reunited , I don't know why there is a game of life in my eyes, and it is full of magical psychology.

I really want them to get back together in the movie, but when I ask myself about the situation at home, if I want my parents to be like this, I don't want to speak. I seem to prefer to be accepted by facts rather than judgments and opinions. This kind of psychological comparison makes me think I'm really nothing. If it is a child, if I am under ten years old, I would not hesitate to ask my parents to stay together, and I will not pay attention to what happened to them, and I will not use the so-called "rational" to consider a person who is originally emotional Question, how good is that! That’s why I discovered that an adult’s understanding of love is actually only weakened by time. Maybe they think they are gentle and calm, maybe rational and tolerant, but that may be the burden of being an adult. The key to the movie touches something deep, when she tells her children that she loves their father, that he is part of her life, but will not get back with their father. I suddenly realized that the incompetence of love has nothing to do with love, but love is replaced by complex emotions. On the emotional balance of a person's heart, it is not possible to determine the tilt according to the actual weight, and love can be balanced by the balance. The weights above are weighed, so too many accidents in life are creating an inevitable influence, promoting emotional intuition and mood. The logic in adult emotions is nothing more than an unconscious rudder. Adults (including her children) seem to need harmony and tranquility more, so it seems that time has cultivated the courage to accept a fact, but also lost the courage As with accepting the opposite, it is natural to avoid certain conflicts and to safely consider all decisions to be rational, mature decisions. In other words, I seem to see that if love was created under the same roof in the past, it means that the separation in the past also created another self. Therefore, when it comes to reconciliation, it is not that you can get the other person without being disabled, but it may be It means losing the self that has been separated for many years. The so-called compound problem is not to regain completion, but to make the person disabled again. Does this mean love?

I thought that yesterday's husband dared to break into her bed naked was a love impulse, and I also thought that the Pussy-head video put on a fashion show and overcame cowardice to show up at the site where the house was built for her was driven by love, and I also thought that her face She has always shown so much love to her children, but I don't think she has discovered the true form of love. They are wrapped in time, too tight to be torn apart by reason. In the film, what is harmonized is Love doesn't need a reason, it's a must, you can't stop it, you can't help yourself, even if you can't reproduce the power of love that collapses everything, you can't see the deep emotional accumulation from adults after experiencing more, and the climbing of resilience after trekking unexpectedly , can't be seen in this couple, the rest is the rest of the life of love that adults can only justify after "growing up". Love is actually submerged in the indescribable emotional ocean of life, and it does not really know whether love should be sweet or salty. When the world grows longer, emotions always control the future by surprise. Those emotions like love cannot be distinguished from love, so we can only say that love is a complicated topic, and it seems that we can't return to what love should have been. Yes: the heart of a child in love.




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  • Jake: [Discussing Jane's lack of a bikini wax] You've gone native. I dig it.

  • Jake: Is it really necessary for you to always say no before you say yes?