You were born and I was not born, I am old when I was born

Violette 2022-03-30 09:01:11

Just like the [Wife Is Getting Married] recommended to me by Kanbuliuer, after reading it, I can't say anything. But like a stick in his throat, there is an indescribable depression in his heart. In fact, the sentence of the title does not express what the work wants to express. The age gap is not the problem itself that they torment each other. The problem is that Daivd can't give his heart, not that he doesn't want to, but that he can't. I remember seeing a word in Hope magazine when I was 21 or 2 years old, called love incompetence. Men probably find sexual impotence very sad, but women will feel that love incompetence is even more sad than sexual impotence. Women, like Consuela, dare to give regardless of everything when they find true love, but women's nature makes them give and have to take. They insist that love = fame, so they ask for fame, I hope to be able to be the person around him upright, and I think this is not too much compared to the love and body I give. When there is no response, rightly doubt, pain, conflict, despair and break up.
I agree with Sheldon's point of view in The Big Bang Theory. Treating love is like Schrödinger's cat paradox. When you don't know what to do, you should do it first. As for the result, it's life or death.
In fact, there is no right or wrong in relationship issues, and there should be no distinction between men and women. Everyone has different understandings and attitudes. Some people are destined to miss it.

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Elegy quotes

  • George O'Hearn: Beautiful women are invisible.

    David Kepesh: Invisible? What the hell does that mean? Invisible? They jump out at you. A beautiful woman, she stands out. She stands apart. You can't miss her.

    George O'Hearn: But we never actually see the person. We see the beautiful shell. We're blocked by the beauty barrier. Yeah, we're so dazzled by the outside that we never make it inside.

  • David Kepesh: I think it was Betty Davis who said old age is not for sissies. But it was Tolstoy who said the biggest surprise in a man's life is old age. Old age sneaks up on you, and the next thing you know you're asking yourself, I'm asking myself, why can't an old man act his real age? How is it possible for me to still be involved in the carnal aspects of the human comedy? Because, in my head, nothing has changed.