When you have Adam as a boyfriend

Ashleigh 2022-03-23 09:02:44

Serious spoilers, be careful.

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though When I was very young, I read all the fairy tales I could find, but for some reason I found "The Little Prince" difficult to swallow, so I didn't like seeing it since I was a child, so I thought, I may not be able to understand the title one accurately. At the beginning of the monologue, I didn't quite understand what Adam had to do with the little prince, just like I couldn't understand where Adam was to blame.
——If it is weird to talk about the knowledge of science and technology in the universe, is it normal for those who talk about luxury and fashion?
Please forgive my short knowledge, I think the two are the same, but everyone's interests are different. And there are so many things in the world for people to explore, you like stones, I love diamonds, what's not to do?

I have seen film critics saying that Adam did not cry or grieve after facing the death of his father. When everyone was sad, he just crossed out his father's name in the schedule. He was very strange.

- I'm starting to feel weird.

Because what I saw was Adam's endless panic and hesitation. From the content of the later film, it can also be clearly found that Adam is the most afraid of change. Whether it's a change in housing, a change in work, or even a change in daily life, it's a major event that would break him down, tantamount to a "big bang" in his universe.
The change this time is that the father who has been with him day and night has "changed" and is no longer by his side. Such an explosion can create another solar system. And Adam accepted it calmly. It is conceivable that how many times did he toss and turn and pace back and forth in his room before he could have the scene we saw at the beginning?
If you have to define "pain" and give it a level, isn't it pain? Isn't it caused by the departure of a loved one? Although, some people may also say that this is just a change in living habits, caused by, not the heart. But pain is pain, and there is no need for far-fetched reasons. In my opinion.

I laughed when I saw Adam babble about Kelly's ability to discern sound systems to his supervisor. Because it seems to have seen someone very, very familiar.
Because of the things they are interested in, the sparkling eyes, because someone finally wants to know their favorite things or knowledge, and they go on and on, absolutely without ventilation and without punctuation, just like a small Like a child who has discovered a treasure, his hands are covered with mud on his face, but he is holding, holding, and jumping for joy, eager to share this unparalleled joy with others - although the listeners are not interested, or the listeners even feel that "Do you take me for a fool? Are you showing off your high IQ?" But in fact, Adam or Adams didn't think so far, he was just happy.

When the scene changes to Adam sitting on the steps, Beth greets him with a big bag
"Hi, neighbors"
"Cassini probe returns a new Saturn influence"...
I almost stopped laughing again. go. Because I recalled that someone had endlessly tested the functions of google map and various satellite positioning software on the mobile phone because of a new smartphone, satellite positioning, 3D map system, and altitude measurement to measure the direction of movement. The time for the sun to rise and fall, etc., etc., lasted for about a week in total.
The other person was in exactly the same situation as Beth, who was dragging a huge luggage and was completely ignored.

really cute. film.

In fact, I think Beth's intrusion is a miracle in itself for Adam.
Adam, who has worked with colleagues for so many hours without meeting, responded to the first meeting, Beth, who was waiting for the door in the laundry room, responded to BETH's greetings - and it was not a purely routine "Hi, BETH" but "Casey". The new Saturn influence has been returned by the Nippon probe", which has been unprecedented. He's trying, he's trying to change.

So when the stars are on the monitor, I honestly think it's super cute. It's not romantic, it's not romantic for Adam, or anything special, it's just that he wants to try to communicate with BETH, to express himself in order to understand BETH, and this is already some kind of limit.
He really wanted to make BETH happy, so he said hard, what he thought was very pleasant, and he thought that maybe, maybe, should make others happy, until BETH said "SAD"... Adam felt that he said the wrong thing, His joy immediately slipped from his eyes, and he quickly turned on the lights—he didn't want anyone SAD.
In particular, it would make him even sadder if he caused SAD himself.

Before BETH left, he turned around and said: Your planetarium is really good.
These words saved Adam.

Beth is a kind girl who lives in a big city and is almost extinct, right? Otherwise, he would not agree to be dragged out to watch the raccoon when he was extremely depressed. Adam's brightest smile is also here.

Purely without a trace of impurities.

Beth and Adam are the best of the best.

BETH has experienced cheating, cheating by ex-boyfriend, cheating by father who loves him most. When everything he believed in collapsed, the only one who didn't know how to deceive, Adam, who was pure like BABY, became a life-saving straw.
BETH has been looking for evidence that ADAM loves herself, sometimes it's just a sentence, but in fact, what she needs is evidence that she loves ADAM. ADAM is weird, but ADAM is warm at times, and that warmth is real, from the heart, not a response to what anyone expects.

BETH is beautiful, she senses ADAM's unease, brings party food out, and gives him books to help him find a job. No one has ever done such a thing.

She took him to heart.

Oh, by the way, I think the most romantic thing in the film is not watching the starry sky and watching raccoons. It was he who cleaned the windows for her, and she gave him books to find a job—they all took the other's most inadvertent little words to heart and acted on them.

Not for romance, not for love, just to help him/her.

HELPFUL has

the same relationship as plain water.
In fact, what a beautiful relationship it is. In my opinion.

But not everyone can understand and accept such people and things.
Such as BETH's dad.

That arrogant, unreliable father with paranoid love, I don't want to analyze it. He does really love BETH, and he expects BETH to be happy, but it must be "happiness that he can understand". Poor dad, poor BETH.

Regarding all kinds of disasters in life, everyone will encounter them in their lives. As long as they happen to close relatives, there is always a feeling that the sky is falling. At this time, I always hope that there is someone to rely on, preferably my lover.
— but in reality, the chances of relying on them are always slim. Those who rely on infinite tolerance are generally only propaganda in movies and written works. When people do encounter disaster, they understand the difference between reality and ideal.
Therefore, rather than saying that ADAM is so indifferent, it is better to say that in real life, men are like this.

When Adam talked about why he wanted Beth to go to California with him, his words broke Beth's heart. But what he is actually telling is how important beth is in his life.

But people in parallel worlds cannot communicate, and the two have drifted apart. The warmth of boiled water cannot save BETH's heart hurt by loved ones. What she needs is spirits.

The departure of BETH has prompted the growth of ADAM. He finally learned to force himself to overcome his social fears, and finally learned to face everything on his own.

Only after experiencing great pain will people have the courage to grow up.
The greatest pain is the loss of true love.

in order not to lose.


WHAT DO YOU WANT?
Can you not be greedy and be satisfied with a cup of boiled water that quenches your thirst?
Can you love him the way he is and not expect him to be or to be born the way you want him to be?

Love must bring harm. But hurt makes people grow.
As long as there is a tinge of "good" change in the relationship, it is not in vain. Even if it eventually disappears.
Just like when Adam received Beth's picture book at the end.


As I wrote, I forgot what I was going to say. It doesn't seem to have anything to do with the title.
If anyone sees the end, please accept my bow and apologize for my digression and rambling.
Hope you still enjoy this movie, even though it's as light as the breeze that blows the last dead leaf.

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Extended Reading

Adam quotes

  • [last lines]

    Beth Buchwald: Adam, his mother, and his father were a family of talking raccoons that lived in the middle of New York City. They didn't really belong there, but there they were.

  • Harlan: Liars is all you gonna run across in this world. A man's gotta learn the difference between just plain liars and liars worth lovin'.

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