Get used to feeling good friends around

Garrick 2022-04-14 08:01:01

There is a kind of person who is used to fighting alone, no matter how complicated or difficult things are, she believes that she can do it successfully by herself. Often times, that seems to be the case. She will think of countermeasures, make designs, find materials, and do it alone. She will not feel very difficult, nor will she feel too lonely, and she even enjoys doing everything by herself. autonomy and freedom. Even if it fails, because there is no intervention from others, there is no need to devote more effort to taking anger at others, and if you clean up the mess by yourself, you can calmly admit your failure, or start anew bravely.

She doesn't seem to need friends, and of course she has friends. But friends are more just playmates for her. You can laugh together when you are happy, play together when you meet fun things, and congratulate each other when you have big or small successes. Then, when a friend encounters a problem, she will do her best. To help, enthusiastic more serious than their own affairs. But, that's all.

When she faced difficulties, she would only support herself; when she felt helpless, she would not tell others about her hardships and loneliness. Most of the time, she didn't think that a friend could help her; occasionally, very rarely, she would like to have a friend by her side, but she found that she didn't know how to express herself to her good friends. She felt helpless, so she told herself, be stronger, be stronger, and then, once again, all the difficulties will be overcome by herself.

She is not used to having someone standing behind her, supporting and helping her. There should be an empty silence behind her, so that she will feel safe and content; she is also not used to having someone standing Her left and right sides became her left and right hands, because she never learned to use the strength of others, and those people would appear to be in the way, distracting her attention, making her feel that she suddenly became clumsy, stumbled, and then, Even the simplest things can be messed up. This ending seems to prove again that she really doesn't need friends by her side.

The fairy Tinkerbell in the cartoon is such a person, she is used to realizing all the whims and ideas by herself, and she likes to face all the tasks and adventures by herself, but once a good friend leaves Near her side, whether it is the fairy dust fairy Terence or the little firefly Liangliang, she will feel uncomfortable everywhere, and then use an almost instinctive rejection to keep others away from thousands of miles. However, good friends are not only able to share happiness, in the same way, good friends can also share grief. When you are helpless, their optimism will re-invigorate your fighting spirit, and their tolerance and understanding will warm your heart again and again that you feel that you have fallen into the sea of ​​ice.

A very simple cartoon, as simple as the simple English sentence pattern learned many years ago - when you need help, a person approaches you and asks: Can I help you? You don't need to hesitate too much, just answer calmly: Yes, thank you! Between friends, it was originally that simple. All, it is also a cartoon that makes people feel very warm after watching it. Tinkerbell has found the treasure she lost, and that is her good friends. She just needs to get used to the feeling of being around her good friend, the long-lost, warm and down-to-earth feeling. Then, she will know that having friends by her side is not all about each other's ties and burdens, and seeking help from friends is definitely not about her weakness and too much dependence.

View more about Tinker Bell and the Lost Treasure reviews