Dispel the ice in my heart

Raleigh 2022-12-04 00:40:43

Looking at wild strawberries makes people seem to see their own life in advance. For the insulation of interpersonal relationships, as well as the claustrophobia, loneliness and coldness of self-life, countless people are walking the years passed by the elderly. Everyone’s life has countless unbearable knots left behind. The director used film language in hallucinations and dreams to make people like a ghost to see the important scenes in his life repeating one by one, and once again truly returning to the original wrong path The choice, feel the pain in the heart that ripped apart the soul, and jump out of the incident, put yourself in the shoes of others, and face the selfishness and intolerance of the past. People can sigh about the endless regrets in those days, but they can't start all over again.
When a person's life journey has come to an end, it seems that everything is irreversible, but all living beings walking in the process of life often cannot find a way to reconcile with reality. I don't know why I can't like it, I don't know why I can't tolerate it, I don't know why I can't do better. In fact, happiness is very simple, to make others happy is to make yourself happy. If you can't be happy yourself, at least don't involve others in misery.
Looking at the character and behavior of the old man, he is a typical contemplative rational character, routine but hypocritical behavior, as his daughter-in-law knows, there is a cold heart beneath his polite exterior. On the surface, his life was positive, orderly, and in line with all the morals of bourgeois Puritanism, but in fact he drowned his enthusiasm for world affairs and people in his medical research. A person who looks the most normal may be a cold-hearted person, or a person with the most problems. In the public sphere a person can be selfless and make great contributions, but in the private sphere one can be domineering and headstrong. Maybe some people really have psychological creation, unfortunate childhood, frustrated love, loveless marriage, and missing family. The lack of emotion will cause the distortion of the mind, and the distortion of the mind will make people treat the people and things around them with a dark psychology. The result is that there is no love and gratitude towards others, only jealousy and resentment. The soul of a person and his life, let him or her pass on the characteristic coldness to the nearest person.
I think this film is very good, it can let people who live in numbness, people who live the most normal life, see their own problems. The old man can't make everything start over, but in reality, as long as he is willing, he has more time than the old man to improve the relationship, dispel the cold in his heart, and warm each other with the people around him.

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Wild Strawberries quotes

  • Dr. Evald Borg: It's absurd to bring children into this world and think they'll be better off than we were.

    Marianne Borg: That's just an excuse.

    Dr. Evald Borg: Call it what you want. I was an unwanted child in a hellish marriage.

  • Marianne Borg: You're a coward.

    Dr. Evald Borg: Yes. This life sickens me. I will not be forced to take on a responsibility that will make me live for one day longer than I want to. And you know that I mean what I say.