Auntie, in your 50+ year old love, I saw the shadow of 20+ year old love.

Ruby 2022-03-22 09:01:57

To be honest with Aunt Streep, I have always been relatively indifferent. The first real contact was. Auntie doesn't have a very literary feeling, and I have to say that she has a very mundane body and looks like she is smiling. That should be exactly this feeling, which makes my aunt very suitable for this film that depicts the relationship between divorced husband and wife + extramarital affairs + love between around 50 old women and three very complicated emotions.

Basically, as a woman in her early 20s, auntie's three feelings are theoretically impossible to understand. But looking at it apart, there are so many similarities.

There was once a bf who broke up and got back together again. Although the chance to get together again is not as passionate and turbulent as her and her ex-husband, it is indeed a thousand turns. The relationship after getting back together was fresh and contradictory. When I think about it now, it's like taking out the overnight dishes and re-cooking a pot of very fragrant soup. I have appetite, but I always feel that something is wrong.
She was supposed to be the same, that's why she broke up with him after the failed date that night, and made it clear that they couldn't go back, even if he wasn't another woman's husband, even if he was the father of three children . She admitted that he was always a part of her body, her first man. I like her candor. Because of this kind of honesty, I suddenly realized that one day you finally let go of the entanglement for many years. You feel that it is nothing more than that. You should thank the people you have loved, and then tell the friends around you that you finally let go of their worries and let go. own heart.

There have also been unspeakable romances, secretly incapable of telling people, whether in their sweet times or their sorrows. This feeling is very bad. Therefore, it is understandable that when my aunt repeatedly struggled with whether her behavior was right or wrong, she was completely insane when she was kissed by an ex; When I went to the hotel and had a tryst with ex, I was as happy as a little girl; dressed in a beautiful shirt, ready to buy a table of food, candles and flowers, but I couldn't wait for the sadness and decision of the people. I like the way the film handles these episodes, it's very real - every man and woman with a strange relationship must have encountered a similar scene, and it's this way of handling the plot that makes the character's emotional transition very natural, very Decent and rich.

As for Adam, the new boyfriend of this cute and elegant aunt, the aunt undoubtedly used others as a spare tire at the beginning - in fact, this is different from the behavior of a girl in her 20s. When they are in love, they do not exclude the opposite sex who have good feelings for each other, kiss and keep the video. I like the mature way of love. It is not so vigorous, and the delicate details are the most moving. So I don't like the way Auntie's ex enters into other people's lives recklessly and destroys his own. So, I love how crazy she is when she smokes weed with him and super loves the episode where she takes him to her dessert shop and makes a chocolate croissant together. Although the ending didn't say whether she was with him or not, I liked the way they handled their feelings, it was direct, neat, and similar, so, even with such an unconventional ending, it actually implied a good ending.

Therefore, this film tells us that love happens, in 20+, and 50+, it is the same, as a woman, you have to stay true, stay honest, believe in love and believe in yourself, even if you can't get a man, you can get it To relief and fulfillment. It's not so complicated. (How could I write such a report-like ending o(╯□╰)o)

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It's Complicated quotes

  • Jane: Don't you ever eat at your house?

    Jake: Pedro dictates most meals and he has a very... limited palate.

  • Jake: Home Sweet Home.