when the son in the movie was gay

Paige 2022-03-22 09:02:41

There are very few movies that make me unable to cry myself. And a "Prayers for Bobby" that I watched in the afternoon made me try my best to restrain myself from crying wantonly in the bedroom, but I still let the tears wash my face.

In "God Bless Bobby", which was changed by real events, it was Bobby's death that deeply awakened his mother, Mary. The remorseful mother began to realize that it wasn't Bobby's fault but herself. She finally realizes that her little Bobby has always been so different, she just never looked up.

Rather than simply classifying the film as a "gay movie," it's a good ethical film. The discussion in the film around the views on the "sin of homosexuality" in the "Bible" in disguise reflects the arduous process of the cause of gay rights protection in the United States at that time. Most people who believe in "traditional" Christian teachings (like mother Mary) cannot accept the fact that their children are gay, and they believe that the sin of "homosexuality" is unforgivable and will go to hell. Even Bobby's death was inseparable from this "belief" - he couldn't get the approval of his mother, he felt that he was inexorable, and he felt guilt, pain, helplessness and confusion, and finally gave up everything in despair. As the pastor said: Superstition is as terrifying as the absence of faith.

The attitudes of many parents in the film about their gay children are in stark contrast to the "previous" Mary. In particular, the calmness and calmness of David's parents towards their son David and Bobby's love relationship adds to the sadness and regret of Bobby's death. One can't help but sigh, what a cruel fact that such a mistake leads to a tragedy! And Mary, after discussing the "sin of homosexuality" with the gay rights pastor, and after hearing other parents in the PFLAG group share a shift in their thinking about their gay children, was deeply moved by Bobby's death. After reflection, the change from initially resisting and disgusting LGBT people to devoting the latter half of his body to the cause of LGBT rights protection reflects the change in the American concept of "comrade" as a sensitive topic in the context of that era. Process.

At a gay parade in San Francisco, Mary saw her little "Bobby" in the crowd, walked over to hug him tightly, and left with a smiling, strong mother. This scene really touched me deeply, like that little "Bobby" with wet eyes and smiling face, I mixed tears and smiles to pay tribute and blessings to this mother. I know she sees all these kids in need of love and hugs as her beloved Bobby.
At the end of the film is a photo of Mary in reality. She has a silver hair on her face with a smile, that kind of calm smile full of relief.

Prayers for Bobby, for the boy who sacrificed in an era when gays didn't get enough love and recognition. Prayers for Mary, a mother who deserves to be revered - in reverence for her unwavering love for her son and all her hard work on behalf of the disadvantaged LGBT community.

Finally, I want to write about what she said while pushing the City Council Gay Freedom Day proposal: "When you say Amen at home, at church, think and remember that there is a kid listening."

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  • Rebekah 2022-03-27 09:01:18

    A good movie is available. If you want to come out, please share this film with your parents.

  • Kaya 2022-03-21 09:03:02

    Not as good as expected. Very provocative, very provocative. But didn't cry. There are too many elements of religion. And the previous narrative is messy and messy. Didn't tell the story clearly. But when it comes to provocation, there is no ambiguity at all.

Prayers for Bobby quotes

  • Mary Griffith: Homosexuality is a sin. Homosexuals are doomed to spend eternity in hell. If they wanted to change, they could be healed of their evil ways. If they would turn away from temptation, they could be normal again if only they would try and try harder if it doesn't work. These are all the things I said to my son Bobby when I found out he was gay. When he told me he was homosexual my world fell apart. I did everything I could to cure him of his sickness. Eight months ago my son jumped off a bridge and killed himself. I deeply regret my lack of knowledge about gay and lesbian people. I see that everything I was taught and told was bigotry and de-humanizing slander. If I had investigated beyond what I was told, if I had just listened to my son when he poured his heart out to me I would not be standing here today with you filled with regret. I believe that God was pleased with Bobby's kind and loving spirit. In God's eyes kindness and love are what it's all about. I didn't know that each time I echoed eternal damnation for gay people each time I referred to Bobby as sick and perverted and a danger to our children. His self esteem and sense of worth were being destroyed. And finally his spirit broke beyond repair. It was not God's will that Bobby climbed over the side of a freeway overpass and jumped directly into the path of an eighteen-wheel truck which killed him instantly. Bobby's death was the direct result of his parent's ignorance and fear of the word gay. He wanted to be a writer. His hopes and dreams should not have been taken from him but they were. There are children, like Bobby, sitting in your congregations. Unknown to you they will be listening as you echo "amen" and that will soon silence their prayers. Their prayers to God for understanding and acceptance and for your love but your hatred and fear and ignorance of the word gay, will silence those prayers. So, before you echo "amen" in your home and place of worship. Think. Think and remember a child is listening.

  • Mary Griffith: I won't have a gay son.

    Bobby Griffith: Then mom, you don't have a son.

    Mary Griffith: Fine.