The plot presents us with a good example of how to overcome the marital crisis --- Fire Chief Colbert. His behavior in the crisis also reflects once again that marriage needs to be managed. The "seven-year itch" is a "predicament" that most families will encounter. Some families come early and some late. It is a couple who must have such a stage from conflict and quarrel to cold violence. In the end, most of the endings are either divorce. Either look for extra-marital sustenance. The home that used to be warm has turned into a cold Antarctic and North Pole like an ice cellar. Presumably both men and women would never want to live under such a roof, how bad for their physical and mental health! But facing each other in the ice cellar Helpless, or giving up too quickly. The root cause of the family's "dilemma" is that each other does not know how to solve it. If one party wants to solve it, it needs a hundred million feet of confidence and patience to wait for the other party's changes. In the process You can't give up easily. Because then you will give up all your achievements and hurt your heart---because you will be afraid, so you dare not enter the marriage. Or when you enter the marriage again and fall into the previous predicament, you The subconscious mind will remind you of the lessons of the last failure and you will be helpless. In
the face of the dilemma of marriage, it is best not to give up lightly, so how to save it? To sum up the movie, there are three points:
1. Use action. Cold treatment can be used to think about methods, but don’t take it too long. It’s easy to treat cold treatment as a habit for too long, and it becomes cold violence. Find your original love and think about how you used your mind to win the attention of the other party back then. He Xinhuan, in the face of the trivial reality of family life, what actions can you take to express your love for your family and him/her?
2. Be patient. Actions may not be effective, basically not Too fast will be effective. So you need to persevere. Think about how patient and careful you were when you pursued it. A line in the play said it very well: in order to pursue the person you like, you will definitely do everything possible. Come to know her and pay attention to her. But after marriage, I don't even have the time to talk to her. As everyone knows, it is more important to understand and pay attention to people after marriage.
3. Have strength. The most important thing is to have strength beyond human beings to support you, that is, believing in God. Because human endurance and human love are limited, otherwise there will be no reason why passion is at most only It can last for 11 months. Believing in God will make you look at everything you do beyond human scale. And the other half. You will start by reviewing your own faults, and start to change your heart without paying attention to or bad habit, this change is not for her/him, but for yourself. When you change yourself, you will find that you have started to manage your own marriage.
The road of life is always ups and downs, and it is inevitable that marriage will join hands. Noisy and noisy, so the noise is back to the noise. Don't let go of the other hand easily, especially before you try your best to save it. Everyone has a time when they are not sober or emotional. During such a time, don't be with each other. Unconsciously, he threw his hands away. I liked the ending scene very much. The protagonist held a wedding again. Under the testimony of God, the marriage was turned into a life-long oath instead of a contract.
Marriage is the best and most important gift from God. Don't lose this precious gift easily...
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