Fireproof--Unconditional Love and True Love

Ethel 2022-08-07 18:12:39

I learned about this good movie from my American friend Christina when I shared with my friends that I saw "I am David". She told me "fireproof" is great because it helps a lot of people in marriages feel good, love, and find God. She said she was also moved and cried a lot. I am always willing to experience more beauty, whether it is a good book, a good movie, or a good song. I will not refuse. I also feel that everything is so beautiful. I really love it all, and sometimes I am afraid that I will not have enough time in my life to experience all this beauty. There are so many good books on the computer waiting for me to read them slowly; so many beautiful things waiting for me to go out and open my eyes and appreciate them with my heart; and there are also many beautiful songs waiting for us to listen to. However, all of this tells us that we are unconditionally loved.

In this movie, I saw a person who thinks that he has no problem in a marriage relationship and then realizes what true love is, makes his own mistakes, corrects his mistakes, and willingly does everything for the other party. The other person feels happy. And the more you know how to love, the less you care about how the other party responds. Even if you are "kind-hearted as donkey liver and lungs", you will not shake your determination to love at all, but you will love and give so wholeheartedly and will not care about whether the result is gained or lost. Is it worth it or not? Does it work or not?

After 40 days of reading his notes, he found he couldn't stop loving his wife. His wife said that he couldn't forgive him, but he was not angry at all, and said sincerely: he realized that he had hurt his wife, who should have loved him well, with his words and deeds for many years, and he apologized for his selfishness. He also prayed for God's forgiveness every day, and he also prayed that his wife would forgive him. He said that he did not want to lose his wife in life. When his wife said that he needed time to consider whether to divorce or not, he did not get angry at all. Instead, he said calmly, as much time as you want. In the end, when Catherine found out that the person who paid more than 20,000 dollars for her mother's wheelchair and bed was her husband, she was moved, and hurriedly went home to find a ring, put on a meditation dress, and went to her husband and told her

If I haven't told you that you are a good man, you are. If I hadn't told you before that you are a good man, I will tell you now that you are a good man. If I haven't told you that you've been forgiven, you have. Now you know you're forgiven. If I haven't told you that I love you, I do. Now let me tell you I love you. In the end, Keller and his wife hugged tightly! It has always been like this: where there is love, there is hope! Many times, it is not because things are complicated and bad that they cannot be solved and they cannot be loved, but because they cannot be loved, things become complicated and bad and cannot be solved.

However, what exactly is love? As Keller's father told Keller, you can't give what you don't have. If you don't know how to love, how can you love your wife, Catherine? Keller asked his father in disbelief, "Why should he love someone who doesn't even respect me?" His father replied, "That's a good question. Why did Jesus crucify us to atone for our sins? No matter what mistakes we have made, we are all equal before God. He loves every child, no matter how they look at him, or what they say or do. Perhaps at that moment, Keller really realized that love should be like God, who never cares about how the other party treats him and gives it completely selflessly.

I am so touched that he has such a respected father. What is even more unexpected is that in the marriage of Keller's parents, the person who first believed in God and loved, tolerated, and understood regardless of gain or loss was his mother. Keller had always been a little disgusted with his mother, Rory's, long-windedness, and when he finally learned what her mother did, he was moved again. He ran back to hug his mother, crying and begging her to forgive him. True love often seems futile at first, but as long as you love, everything will be perfect in the end!

It is unconditional love that you know that you will not necessarily get something in return, but you are willing to give it with certainty! No matter how deeply he has hurt you or what he has said or done, you still forgive him, forgive him, and believe in him. That is unconditional love! Don't care what he said or what he did, just care about him, believe him, that's true love!


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Fireproof quotes

  • Catherine Holt: So, what day are you on?

    Caleb Holt: 43.

    Catherine Holt: There's only 40.

    Caleb Holt: Who says I have to stop?

    Catherine Holt: Caleb, I don't know how to process this. This is not normal for you.

    Caleb Holt: Welcome to the new normal.

  • Mr. Rudolph: Don't speak to him, Erma. He's weird.

    Erma Rudolph: Takes one to know one.

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