where did i come from

Jeromy 2022-03-23 09:02:58

I have always been very dissatisfied with my parents' answers to me asking where I came from. They all said that you picked it up. Where did you get it? In the garbage dump outside the city. Pick up another one and bring it back~ If you can't support you, pick it up! !

From those kissing movie shots I guessed that after a man and a woman kiss, the woman will have children.

Likewise, like Freud's little Hans, I would imagine a woman giving birth to a child as if I were pooping.

Later, in the biology textbook of the second year of junior high school, I detailed the encounter of sperm and egg cells to have my struggle in this life. In fact, the textbook said only the principle of things. Relying on the curiosity of self-reliance, I began to understand from the sexual knowledge books in the library, from the personal accounts of my friends, and most directly, from the appearances of Japanese friends, I began to understand the 360mm road that the little tadpole has to walk. How tangled.

I've always been dissatisfied with my endless exploration of sex—if only my parents had told me directly. So I thought: In the future, if my child asks me where he came from (I don’t know if I will have it), I will directly tell him the marathon battle of sperm and the waiting of egg cells, and let him have sex. A transparent and broad historical understanding of analogies, like his father, maintains a tolerant understanding of every sexual form.

In the process of watching this movie, I suddenly had an epiphany: Then, am I depriving my child of such an interesting exploration process?

The legend of the child-delivering stork seems to be an oriental story, but like "Mulan", it is so vividly and beautifully interpreted by the American degenerate culture represented by Pixar. Think of this picture: When my child asks me how he was born with his beautiful big eyes (because it is true that my eyes are not small), I point to the sky (provided that my house is small in size) The sky is not completely blocked), he told him that the clouds in the sky are immortals, and every day they make the clouds into children, and there are a group of birds with their mouths like his father’s, they make the clouds well The children are in their mouths and fly down from the sky. Whose parents are lonely (does he know what loneliness is?) and send the children to which place. If the children are disobedient, the parents can ask these birds. Send the kid back and let him turn back into a cloud. Will my little P boy be terrified to hear such narcissistic nonsense? Or, sensitively feel that I am fooling him, continue to ask the truth? Or, I was so boring, that he fell asleep and ran away before he could hear me?

In addition to China's traditional sex education, when children in other countries inquire about their origins, their parents avoid direct descriptions of the sexual process in a subtle way. This at least shows: there is a reason for this. In the theory of psychoanalysis, human beings have exchanged their repression of sex for a high degree of civilization. Will showing the sexual process to children too early and too blatantly will have an immeasurable negative impact on children's sexual consciousness? Sex is innocent and beautiful. The ultimate mission of sex education is to pass on genes in the right way. All education is additional, and it is never possible to predict whether these educations will conflict with each individual's unique needs. Therefore, the general direction of our sex education will be to make the individual's sexual awareness not conflict with the social constraints on sexuality. Sexual maturity is often found gradually in the individual's own continuous experience. So instead of presenting some unbeautiful things to the child in such a naked way, it is better to leave these things to him and follow his mind.

Straightforward sex education is like adding a paragraph to a child when he tells a fairy tale: "This story tells us...", depriving the child of the freedom to continue to enjoy the moral of the story.

Say or not, this scale is really not so easy to grasp. It's better to accompany the children to watch cartoons.

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