some thoughts

Jacques 2022-03-29 09:01:10

Although the main line of reconciliation between the protagonist and his wife at the end is God, I don't think this is a film that promotes Christianity. God is just a catalyst.

The story is about a common marital problem. The fuses are actually little bits and pieces. After deposition, it seems to be very obstructive. So, the war of words, the cynicism began to intensify the construction of this obstacle, and in the end both parties felt that it could not continue.

In fact, marriage is not suitable or not, only Jane does not cherish it.

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  • Bettye 2022-03-31 09:01:09

    long and slow cognitive processes

  • Blanche 2022-04-01 09:01:18

    Religious preaching seems a little pale in this film. Insensitive.

Fireproof quotes

  • Catherine Holt: What are you doing?

    Caleb Holt: I see you left me no pizza.

    Catherine Holt: Caleb, I just lit that candle. I like the way it smells.

    Caleb Holt: Well, I don't! Did you leave me any dinner at all?

    Catherine Holt: I assumed you were eating with Michael.

    Caleb Holt: Does it not occur to you that there are two people living in this house and both of them need to eat?

    Catherine Holt: You know what, Caleb, if you would communicate with me, maybe I can have something for you.

    Caleb Holt: Why do you have to make everything so difficult?

    Catherine Holt: Oh, I'm making everything difficult? Seems to me like I'm carrying the weight around here while you're off doing your own thing.

    Caleb Holt: Excuse me? I'm the one working out there to pay this mortgage, and I pay for both of the cars.

    Catherine Holt: Yeah, that's all you do! I pay for all of our bills with my salary!

    Caleb Holt: Which you agreed to do. That's fair! Do you not like this house? Do you not like your car?

    Catherine Holt: Oh, Caleb, who takes care of this house? Me! Who washes all the clothes? Me! Who gets all the groceries? Me! Not to mention that I'm helping my parents every weekend! You know I've got all this pressure on me, and the only thing you ever do for anybody is for yourself!

    Caleb Holt: Let me tell you something: you don't know the first thing about pressure. All right, you think I put out house fires for myself? Or rush to car wrecks at 2AM for myself? Or pull a child's body out of a lake for myself? You have no idea what I go through!

    Catherine Holt: Oh, yeah, but what do you do around here other than watch TV and waste time on the Internet? You know what? If looking at that trash is how you get fulfilled, that's fine, but I will not compete with it!

    Caleb Holt: Well, I sure don't get it from you!

    Catherine Holt: And you won't! Because you care more about saving for your stupid boat and pleasing yourself than you ever did about me!

    Caleb Holt: SHUT UP! I'M SICK OF YOU! YOU DISRESPECTFUL, UNGRATEFUL, SELFISH WOMAN!

    Catherine Holt: I'm not selfish...

    Caleb Holt: HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT TO ME! YOU CONSTANTLY NAG ME AND YOU DRAIN THE LIFE OUT OF ME! I'M TIRED OF IT! IF YOU CAN'T GIVE ME THE RESPECT I DESERVE... LOOK AT ME! THEN WHAT'S THE POINT OF THIS MARRIAGE?

    Catherine Holt: I want out. I just want out.

    Caleb Holt: If you want out, THAT'S FINE WITH ME!

  • Latasha Brown: Honey, I agree with you. You gotta get out. He don't deserve you.

    Deidra Harris: You can say that again. A real man's got to be a hero to his wife before he can be to anybody else, or he ain't a real man.

    Ashley Phillips: Catherine, do you need a place to stay? I can't imagine living in the same house as that man.

    Catherine Holt: No, I decided last night that I am not the one who's leaving. He's the problem, not me.

    Deidra Harris: That's right, girl, stand your ground. Make him respect you. If there's one thing a man understands...

    Caleb Holt: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael, discussing the same situation] ... .it's respect. That's the issue. That's the reason our marriage is failing. She shows me no respect at all. And the saddest part about it is...

    Catherine Holt: [Cuts back to Catherine and her group of friends] He doesn't have a clue. He thinks our marriage has been fine for the most part. You know, he probably thinks...

    Caleb Holt: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael] Our marriage has been fine until this year. Now all of a sudden she goes off the deep end.

    Michael Simmons: Do you really think this happened all of a sudden?

    Caleb Holt: I don't know what to think. I don't understand her. She's emotional about everything, she's easily offended, and way too sensitive.

    Catherine Holt: [Cuts to Catherine, starting to sob] I mean, he's so insensitive. You know, he doesn't truly care how I feel, he doesn't listen to me. Even if I say it over and over and over again.

    Caleb Holt: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael] And then she starts nagging me and saying I don't listen to her... or something like that. It drives me crazy. I feel like I'm going...

    Catherine Holt: [Cuts to Catherine] Insane. You know, he doesn't understand my needs. It feels like we are completely and totally...

    Caleb Holt: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael] Incompatible. She's probably whining to her friends, making me sound like a criminal. I can see them all right now: crying, having some sort of group hug.

    Latasha Brown: [Cuts back to the women crowded around Catherine, comforting her, giving her a group hug] It's gonna be OK, sweetie. It's gonna be all right.

    Ashley Phillips: You'll get through this.

    Deidra Harris: We have your back. Whatever you want. Whatever you need. Whatever you need.

    Michael Simmons: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael] So, you think it's past the point of no return?

    Caleb Holt: I don't have a reason to return.