So, Pride and Prejudice is really a philosophy book for women. How to be a woman, how to treat a suitor, and how to find the best belonging can all be answered.
You can be as gentle as JANE, reserved and reserved, but the first condition is that you have a good face, a frown and a smile, like a spring breeze, a powerful beauty field, and will naturally gather men around. However, if it is like an ice beauty, if it is not vivid or cute, it is at most a beautiful sculpture in the corner, so the highest state must be cold outside and hot inside, and when it is time to be enthusiastic, it must be enthusiastic, such as JANE who has traveled all the way to London, although he has never Meet the lover, but this move will definitely add a lot to the relationship between the two of them. Of course, the most important virtue of a woman is kindness. JANE's kindness is obvious to all. When she finally made a marriage contract with Mr. Bin Lai, what moved me the most was that what made her feel particularly happy was how happy this event could make their whole family! What a kind woman she is, at the most exciting time in her life, ordinary people are already so happy, yet she still takes her family to heart. Such a kind and beautiful person, which man would not be tempted?
Although the BBC III version of Elizabeth is rather unlovable. A dignified and awe-inspiring face is very big, and the bloated body is also very unappetizing, but it must be said that such a smart and persistent woman is also very attractive. If JANE is the traditional Chinese wife and mother, and Yi, like the second grandmother in the gate of the mansion, is definitely a capable person who is in charge of the house. Fiery, self-confidence and strong, can debate with Madame Debord in a clear and organized manner, neither humble nor arrogant, considerate when getting along with her little sister, gentle and lovely, open-minded and open-minded about love, frank and frank, a shrewd and down-to-earth person like Mr. Darcy, of course choosing a wife If you have to choose this, you can get out of the kitchen and go to the hall, which is the highest level of a woman. E is more in line with the tastes of men in today's society. When it is time to be like a woman, tears are flowing, which makes people feel distressed. But at critical times, she is strong and can be a pillar of the family. Such a woman is very practical.
Regarding Lydia, it is a negative image in this film. And a woman who dares to love and hate like this can be regarded as a model for young girls. I always feel that young girls should be crazy, maybe Mr. Wicca is not a good choice, but reading all kinds of men when you are young is not a bad thing, right? If you are still in the tragedy of love at the age of 30, and you are cheated by men, it will be a sadder thing. When Lydia was young, she loved to be lively and crazy, and she eloped and played puppy love. Second chance, there is no guarantee that there will be a wonderful life! There are actually many such examples around me. The four women in SEX AND THE CITY have so little shadows. They have a rich emotional history when they were young, which does not hinder the final HAPPY ENDING! Therefore, this Lydia, if you want to blame it, it is the wrong age.
Merry, if you travel back in time to this era, she will definitely be a female philosopher, female scientist, or at least a female professor, a white bone spirit and the like. Self-confident, keen on books, music and other things crystallized by human wisdom. In fact, it is a representative of many female literary youth. She may not want love or happiness, but she will never tolerate anyone's desecration of artistic philosophy. From time to time, she would say a lot of philosophical rhetoric, and she would play some beautiful music endlessly, disdain the worldly women's jealousy, and those who live quietly in their own little world. If you can stand loneliness, this kind of life can be considered a choice. Although it is not the happiest, it will also be the least hurt. I think of a colleague of my sister, 35 years old, with a monthly salary of 40,000-50,000, not married, not having children, raising a dog, drinking coffee with my sisters on weekends, bubble bars, having an irregular boyfriend, and vacations all over the world travel. Extreme pursuit of the quality of life, like a girl like Yishu, living a fairy-like life. Now these girls, the sign of becoming more and more mature is that they no longer believe in love and indulge in the endless petty bourgeoisie life. Then, Merry should be their earliest pioneer.
The most important of the five girls in Pride and Prejudice is the fourth daughter, Mary. Everything is like following the trend of Lydia, who is a year younger than herself, but she is only superficial. It is neither good nor likable, and even the mother favors Lydia, who is more capricious and lovely. Such a mediocre woman represents the sadness of a small person. Women, you must not do this for the sake of being smart and graceful. What will happen in the end? When I get old, I marry a decent man and live a life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, but I still remember those youthful dreams when I was young, so I complain about life all day long. Apart from complaining and trivialities in life, there is nothing pleasing to the eye, but it can only be maintained helplessly. The best example is their mother, Mrs. Bernard, who is not respected by her husband, and even her daughter is ashamed of her. The only goal of life is pinned on the next generation, hoping to get some satisfaction through them. Even if you are as lonely and lonely as Merry, don't live a life like this.
In addition to these five daughters, there is also a woman worth noting, that is Elizabeth's good friend Charlotte. Her concept of love is very modern and modern, and the stupid and wretched little character Collins actually fits the mate selection standard of modern girls from a certain point of view, which is the so-called affordable male. Have a house, a car, and a career. Although there is less romance in love, at least a comfortable life in the second half of life can be guaranteed. Such a choice may be ashamed of a woman like E who is respectful, but as JANE said, everyone has their own choice. Charlotte is not beautiful, but wise, she knows what she wants, what she can get, and more importantly, how to be satisfied. Elizabeth asked her, are you happy? She did not answer directly, only said that she was very satisfied with the status quo. Therefore, like Charlotte, she is much smarter than Mary, although life may not be more comfortable than her, but it must be much calmer and happier.
Jane Austen turned out to be an emotional expert, with only 6 characters, who can include all kinds of women in the world. What kind of woman you are, you are destined to get what kind of destination. I'm still too young, I haven't experienced too much life, too much love, I don't know what path I will take in the future. But I know that I don't have the beauty of JANE, and I don't have the young and crazy like Lydia. So maybe it's as lonely as Merry, or as peaceful as Charlotte. Fortunately, there are still a group of old friends around, so it won't be so sad.
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