In my impression, the night in Paris is thick, luxurious
in books, life in Paris is creative, romantic
in movies, but the story of Paris is Calm and
understated is the simplest description of life,
so the love in it can not be over-colored,
but can be read by us to have the same experience as reality.
I am used to seeing the clear sky, but over
time,
I fell in love with the hazy Paris.
Since I read a certain sister's blog
, the movies I watched began to "Paris",
reading, watching movies, looking for some details, and wanting to make life a little more interesting and fulfilling.
The reason for this is to sit on the morning bus What I figured out
is that I haven't figured out how to accept some "things".
Although I have become a movie addict,
my sensibility to movies is as lacking as my sensibility to life.
What I want to experience is the life that I can experience only after I jump out of it
. I missed the most precious thing in life."
But we never know what kind of ending the bravery at that time will bring.
If it's good to just be together,
what makes us believe that we'll be together forever?
At the end of "Sleepless in Paris", I
cried,
not about romantic babble,
but about warmth.
He has always despised the pitiful appearance of the groaning,
but he couldn't resist the flood of damned emotions in his heart.
That's why I wanted to write down the origins of my feelings.
Because I see cool and warm tones in city life.
"We can be very close, or we can be very far."
Among the people who come and go every day in a city, except for airborne transmission, all communication is blocked outside the mind. If I meet you face to face, I can also be sure of the confusion and indifference in your eyes, because we don't know each other. If such a state is determined in the heart, it is natural that the residents living in a building do not know each other. But as long as one person breaks this psychological barrier, everything will be completely different.
In the film, the three protagonists live in the same apartment building: Camille lives alone and lives on the top floor of a humble apartment. Her smile was always warm, but the insecurities that life gave her made her feel cold. She loves painting, does cleaning, is estranged from her mother, but close to her colleagues. Philippe is a staff member who buys postcards outside the museum. He dreams of becoming an actor, but because of his introverted nature and prone to stuttering, he cannot take the first step. As for Frank, who is a chef in a small restaurant, he has to pay for his grandmother's pension and medical expenses every month. The pressure of life collided with his grandmother's love, making him romantic.
Everyone has a layer of protective color on the surface to cover up their inner state. Some protective colors are too strong to give people the illusion of indifference. I believe this layer of protective color will disappear as long as you meet the right person. We can be as close as we want.
"The first dream, do you remember? ”
Lin Qingxuan said: “I once lived with the heart of seeking death, I was forced to surpass it, and I also took the initiative to surpass it. No matter whether the dream is realized or not, having a dream is always the most beautiful.” Take the first step, no matter there will be ridicule, difficulties, and disappointment at the beginning, but hard work will help you foresee hope and go on unswervingly all the way. This is the most primitive power of a dream.
For a long time, the word "dream" has been hanging in my heart and on my lips. I have been listening to Fan Weiqi's "First Dream" a year ago, but I dare not listen to it again a year later, because all my efforts have been backlogged in this song. I probably won't listen to it again when my dream has not been realized. . This feeling in my heart also made me realize for the first time that some thoughts are timid. I can't stop experiencing and choosing because of possible harm. Even if there is harm, I have to learn to experience it.
So, please remember the original dream anyway.
"If you don't say love, you will miss it"
Camille and Frank's love sprout lies in the dislocation of insecurity. The first is the period of insecurity conflict. When life is intervened, when it is disturbed, our first reaction is to defend. In fact, Camille and Frank both have insecurities about life and emotional insecurity. The reluctance to speak out is out of fear of losing, preferring to stay the way it is, to maintain what it feels like now. But when the casual Frank wanted to be permanent, Camille's insecurities did not reset. So Frank chose to leave, and Camille wanted to keep it, but it was not what Frank wanted.
However, it finally came out. . . It's good to say it, as long as it's together.
I can't agree with the unprincipled and lack of responsibility of love, which is what puzzles me when I hear some foreigners say they can't take responsibility and family. Of course, there is no right or wrong. Probably some people just lack a sense of security and are afraid of the consequences, so they feel irresponsible.
The film "Love, The Unbearable Lightness"
reminds me of how painful it was when I first read Kundera's The Unbearable Lightness of Life. I can't read the sex and politics in it (though Kundera says his novels aren't political), even now. But one thing, I'm beginning to be sure, if you avoid a relationship, it means that your heart and soul are separated. You cannot bear the distance between reality and unreality, and feel that you cannot have emotions and your own life at the same time, that is, your love is separated from yourself, and you cannot combine them. On the one hand, you are in love, and on the other hand, you have a life in which you cannot identify with each other, so you are unwilling to bear the burden.
A friend said to me, "Don't touch love." Right? It is true that love hurts, but it is also love that gives hope to countless people. Dreams are beautiful, even if they cannot be fulfilled.
This reminds me of the ending of "Blueberry Night". Maybe I will be hurt, and I will be hurt in the future, but the key is to believe in the eternity of love. If not, love is meaningless to faith. Faith is no more addictive than drug addiction, not material dependence but spiritual dependence.
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