Life shouldn't be a one-choice question

Kimberly 2022-04-21 09:02:17

I seem to have said this topic many, many times, on the issue of choice.
Because it seems that for us, there are really too few choices. Go to college, find a job, and get married and have children when you are about the same age. I really don't like this situation like a computer program.
Some time ago, I liked to watch some more unusual stories of big brothers and big sisters, such as "Around Forty" and "The Man Who Can't Get Married". Although some of them got married at the end, at least I saw the existence of such things as "personal likes and dislikes" and "personal thoughts".
The reason why I thought of writing the above paragraph is because I watched the movie "Sex and the City". When the drama was hyped up, I felt a little tired of it: fashion, things like that, it's okay to be in moderation, but if it's overdone, it will really make people feel fake. And I'm too keen on the so-called mature girl topic, it really makes people feel like "reading all the sails"...
But this year's movie version unexpectedly surprised me.
I clicked it with the idea of ​​killing time, but unknowingly, I took a serious look. Four women, four choices, four completely different lifestyles.
In addition to the obvious fashion show accident inside, I think girls will really feel very emotional if they see it. It will substitute into it unconsciously: at some point, did I also have such an idea? Will I do the same? Do I have such expectations too?
Etc., etc.
Impressed, Amanda said to smith, "I love you, but I love me more". I've been in a relationship with myself for 49 years, and I'm the person I should consider more.
Impressed.
I vaguely remember Bonnie once said, be nice to others, love others, but don't wrong yourself.
Amanda's instinctive woman is not my type, but I like her honesty with herself.
In short, I really think girls can watch it - especially girls after the age of 25 who feel a sense of crisis.
Again, I still want to say that life is really not just one or a few choices.
I really hope that I can obey myself and go the way I want to go.

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Extended Reading

Sex and the City quotes

  • Carrie Bradshaw: What does your gut tell you?

  • Enid Frick: Forty is the last age a woman can be photographed in a wedding dress without the unintended Diane Arbus subtext.