In fact, most people are not so lucky. The reality is often: we look at the rivers and lakes with the most loved ones, and we are close to each other with the second love. Or even more, live with yourself for the rest of your life.
Many men evaluate women they admire, always putting intelligence first. Smart, beautiful, lovely, talented, such a woman is undoubtedly the best. However, such a woman is not an ordinary person who can approach her soul.
Only the love of the opponent can reach her soul.
When 20-year-old Jane Austen (Jane Austen) and Tom Lefroy (Tom Lefroy) met for the first time, it may have been destined to become legends in their respective lives.
Both are smart, proud, individual, talented, and share common interests, hobbies, and topics. Even if it is a war of words, it is full of wit.
Love is a flower that blooms freely in each other's hearts. He confided: I'm yours, heart and soul!
The flowers of love also need to be nourished by the soil of reality.
Austin famously said: Nothing destroys the spirit like poverty.
Poverty also destroys love. As Jane's mother said, love is essential, and money is also essential! (Affection is desirable, Money is absolutely indispensable!)
Two people face a common fate: there is no large family property to inherit. Tom also has a large family in Ireland who needs him to support. If the two are combined, it means that they will face poverty from now on.
Marrying that loyal suitor, Wasley, seemed a realistic option for Jane if she could get a comfortable life. And Tom decided to obey his uncle's order and chose to be engaged to a rich lady.
Such a perfect love, in the end, cannot resist the light touch of hard reality.
There are always some bridges in life, adding more or less twists and turns in the plain.
The stubborn Jane refuses to accept a marriage without love, and resolutely rejects Vasley. Jane, whose future is bleak, is hesitating in the woods, but Tom appears unexpectedly.
This man who can be loved by Jane is not vulgar after all. For this true love, he decided to give up the matchmaking contract and come back to find Jane.
The two decided to walk together, however, there seemed to be no other way than to elope. So, the two young people, who were longing for a beautiful love, quietly got on the morning carriage and ran to their own happiness.
While resting at the inn, Jane accidentally learned about the situation of Tom's family, and her mind was once burned by love, but she calmed down instantly. She decided to give up elopement, for Tom's future and life.
Also for love. "A gentleman's love ends with etiquette, not just etiquette."
True love is knowing how to put yourself in the other person's shoes, showing compassion, giving, fulfilling, and taking responsibility.
The two said their goodbyes in tears at the post station, and the post bell jingled away.
Great love will cost a lot. The most perfect love always stays at the most beautiful moment before it becomes the so-called legend, so it can become an eternal memory in life.
Jane never spoke of love and chose to live alone. For her, once she had loved so passionately and sincerely, her life was no longer pale, and her memory had its own color.
It's just that in the novel, Jane gives her heroines and heroines a more happy ending in love than herself: either stay with her favorite. Or after having a passionate love with the favorite, at least there is still a chance to mingle with the second love.
In fact, it is not necessarily the best ending to be in love with the second love. Only if you have ever loved so desperately and passionately, will you understand that no matter how gorgeous the love is, it will always be dull. Wei Ruo is in the ordinary days of each other, and spends a lifetime together. Real water without fragrance is the realm of love.
Jane Austen (December 16, 1775 - July 18, 1817) was a famous British writer, known for "Sense and Sensibility" (first novel), "Pride and Prejudice", "Mansfield Gardens" and "Emma" " and other six novels, which are loved to this day.
Austen is good at describing the love and world of the British rural middle class with the delicate brushstrokes and keen observation that are unique to women. The brushstrokes are witty and witty, and the plots are comical and conflicted, sweeping away the hypocritical vulgarity of "sentimental novels" and "Gothic novels" at that time. . Some people commented on her works such as "Two Inch Ivory Sculptures". G.H. Lewis believes that the essence of Austen's art lies in adherence to principles and seriousness.
Although there are only six works by Austen, they are popular to this day, and even a new word was created in English for this - Janeite (Jane fan). You must like it very much, or you don't like it at all. The famous British historian Thomas Macaulay even compared Austen and Shakespeare, and set a screening criterion for "Jane fans": whether the Janeite is reliable depends on whether the person appreciates Emma ("Emma"). "The heroine).
In 1924, the novelist Kipling published a short story "The Janeites" (the spelling that became the standard usage in the dictionary), about a group of British soldiers who read Austen's novels to survive the brutal World War One story. Since then, the term "Jian Fan" has become widely known.
Director Julian Gerrard hopes to find out why the woman chooses to be single by interpreting the times in Austen's life and her experiences.
From the plot point of view, although the basic story structure is derived from a biography of Austen "Becoming Jane Austen" written by Jon Spence (Jon Spence), it can be clearly seen that many plots are clearly related to "Pride" and Prejudice" and "Sense and Sensibility".
At the end of the film, the two meet again, and they are already flourishing. When Jane learned that Tom's eldest daughter was named "Jane", a small flame moved in her eyes.
You will know that even though the love is separated by rivers and lakes, they have never forgotten each other.
I have loved passionately and sincerely, even if we can't stay together for a long time, who can say that this must not be the best ending?
At the end of the film, Jane reads gently: Everyone has their own different understandings of love.
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