Freedom used to be precious, love is more expensive

Jany 2022-04-20 09:01:44

At a certain time last year, I always had insomnia at night. When it was serious, I just got up and watched TV. I flipped over and found SATC. When I saw 4 am, I climbed into bed, had a glass of milk, and wrote a work plan. sleep.

After reading SATC and then writing the work plan, it is estimated that Qi Shao usually writes love and lyrical prose. I can not. For love sentences similar to aphorisms, I basically lost interest in making up after marriage. For me, the biggest advantage of getting married is that I don't have to think about the illogical question of love. I seem to have said this to someone once, and she showed an unreasonable expression, and I never said it again. Most women may think that if they don't even think about love, what is the meaning of life.

The only thing in this film that rekindled my "thinking" about love was the scene where Carrier was dumped by Mr. Big on the wedding day, and then smashed Big's classmate with the bride's hand. Especially seeing the tears of anger in Charlotte's eyes when she was holding poor Carrier. It seemed that it wasn't Carrier's bridal dream that was broken, but Charlotte's faith.

Just after the brides broke up, Samantha wore the huge ring that her boyfriend bought for her, which she had planned to pay out of her own pocket to please her, and said to her sisters, "It used to remind me of myself when I looked at it, and now I see it. It's him who thinks of it!" His face was full of disappointment.

So I want to extend it, in such an environment of self-struggle and self-enjoyment, how can it be difficult to tolerate such beliefs as marriage that must give up self?

I think of the former "golden boy and girl" - the divorce of Brad Pitt and Jennifer, sweetheart Jennifer said at the time: After arguing, accusing and hurting each other, we remembered that love was originally mutual tolerance and compassion , and by then it was too late.

Maybe only people who understand the actual sacrifice can live with marriage, and most romantic people are ruined by marriage, and it is better to be free and single, such as Samantha. So I don't really believe that Carrier can have a marriage. The lawyer's eldest sister, Maranda, is similar, and she has obtained a real marriage including various events such as cheating.

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Sex and the City quotes

  • Carrie Bradshaw: I put a bird on my head.

  • Louise: It's a rental. Like Netflix for purses.