They are not A, B, D, and B

Anne 2022-04-20 09:01:44

When Lin Qingxia was still in the film industry, she returned to Taipei one year and passed by two young girls on the street. The girls pouted and said, "Brigitte Lin, so old..." The reporter who interviewed Lin Qingxia faintly She wrote that she took the initiative to tell reporters about this passage, and when she said it, she laughed.

For so many years, without a chance, I actually always wanted to ask the two of them back then: "Are you so mean?"

As for, of course. Because life is so mean. She pinched her fingers and counted, no matter how they counted back then, they were still middle-aged women. Just imagine who would be more arrogant if they confronted the little Loli in the 90s now? Who else could be choked to the point of being speechless because of the other party's "old woman"?

It's fun to watch other people comment on the "Sex and the City" movie version: the vast majority of people are outspoken about being on two extremes at the same time. The brocade clothes in the movie naturally make people talk about it, or scream. Then, everyone reminded each other as if to ward off evil spirits, be careful, those four horrific old women.

Nasal lines, bags under the eyes, all the tiredness and oldness that foundation can't cover, birthday cakes with Arabic numerals "50"... OK, I'll take them all, and I'll take a look at them: alright, it's still them. The success of "Sex and the City" does not depend on the four women created by the screenwriter, but the drama itself can arouse a strong sense of substitution among female audiences. You can imagine yourself wearing various big-name clothes according to different ways. I would buy a pair of high-heeled shoes for four or five hundred dollars at every turn, and by the way, if I wanted to love, I would like to have sex as much as I wanted. However, this time, the female fans didn't buy it, and no one was willing to assume that they would be so old.

Back then, when Carrie celebrated her 35th birthday alone, she was so sad that she was dying. Now that the person is over 40, he is eager to marry himself out. She was wearing a wedding dress sponsored by Vogue. From Vera Wang's set, some audiences began to dizzy and scream, but when it comes to marriage, some people muttered: Forty is not confused... Who said that? Carrie in her 40s would be a fool to marry.

It's the same meaning I said at the beginning, people always get old, everyone. Since life is inherently mean, let's not say anything superfluous. This flowery world is terribly big, and people don't necessarily only need to grow old gracefully, and it's okay to grow old enchantingly.

Then, Carrie is in her 40s and is getting married;
Charlotte is in her 40s before she gets pregnant;
Miranda is in her 40s and has a divorce;
Samantha is not only in her 40s, but kicks off her young boyfriend to find herself again, and welcomes herself 50th birthday.

How lively. How awesome.

Yes, to a certain extent, there is no such thing as "forty is not confused". When a person reaches forty, he will still do stupid things with a slap in his head at some point. However, this is not to say that there will be no new wisdom and new insights in the forties.

Forty, fifty, is it too late? It's not a question, it's a question. We all have no way of imagining our own old age, and we are not even willing to face the old age of others, so we are too ignorant. With so many people raving about Samantha's fiftieth birthday cake, people aren't used to a woman about the same age as our mother still doing whatever she wants.

However, the world does not continue because of some habit. So, Carrie had the most simple wedding with Big in the most simple no-name suit, and her calf was still playful when kissing; Charlotte shouted "I curse the day you were born" to Big, but said mean things On this day, Miranda was so unreasonable, she still saw the marks on her lips after drinking milk in the restaurant mirror, and smiled to understand what it means to be burdened in marriage; and Samantha She still took the initiative to break up with her boyfriend, not because she didn't love him, not because it was a pity, but because she knew who was the most important in her life.

They are old, and occasionally their brains can't turn their heads a little; although they are old, they are still brave and willing to strive for happiness and happiness by themselves, and they are full of courage and frankness.

So, old, so what?

If you are familiar with them, you will naturally know that the change will naturally be unstoppable, and the constant will not be able to escape, because they are not A, B, C, and D.

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Sex and the City quotes

  • Carrie Bradshaw: What does your gut tell you?

  • Enid Frick: Forty is the last age a woman can be photographed in a wedding dress without the unintended Diane Arbus subtext.