Empathy

Vivienne 2022-03-22 09:01:38

Sometimes I just want to find a random movie, unattractive, but hypnotic, and then fall asleep silently. But occasionally I come across a good movie that excites me, and I end up watching it in the middle of the night. For example, the very dark and humorous "Vault Robbery" I watched last time, such as "Hot Mom and Spice Girl" last night.

Spice Mom Spice Girl tells a story of empathy. Empathy has always been the most beneficial way for me to communicate with people. I often say that between lovers and friends, we should always communicate with each other before, so as to let each other know each other's psychological process, so that we can better understand each other. It can be more accurate when empathizing. In fact, not only between family and friends, but also in the workplace actually needs empathy. The so-called in their position, do their thing. Everyone's position in the workplace is different, and the way of thinking about problems will not be the same. If you always think about problems from your own perspective, you will always talk about yours and I will talk about mine, and conflicts will never be resolved.

Although I myself can accept that everyone lives with a variety of personalities and ways of doing things. But occasionally I also hope to meet a good person, and occasionally I can change my seat and think about it for me. But people can only control themselves, not anyone else, right?

In fact, empathy is very simple, listen carefully to what the other party is saying, and you will understand the other party's thoughts. People's lives and attitudes are not easy to say, but they are all traces of complexity. Really don't have to pretend to be in the other person's body to understand his situation, which is actually not a very interesting experience.

There is an irony in the film that the daughter is in her mother's body to help her mother to work, as a psychiatrist. Then I told her that "listening is important", but she herself didn't listen to her daughter well. Perhaps there may be a saying that "care is chaos" because he is a very important family member, so there is no way to objectively look at what happened around him. In fact, after watching this movie, I still want to say, it turns out that every child is a good child, the key is whether you care about him and understand him. For example, Daisy initially thought that Jack, who Anna had a crush on, was a bad boy because she met in the penance room. It turned out that Jack was working in the penance room, and Jack was also a mature little boy who knew what love was. Sometimes the world of a child is very simple, and adults who think that the child is not good may just have a misunderstanding of him. This is also the importance of communication.

A movie that really surprised me, the actors are all very good. Daisy's boyfriend Ryan is handsome, mature and stable, while Anna's boyfriend Jack is young and enthusiastic. The foreigner has gray hair, he can't hear other people's speech, and he likes to quarrel with his little grandson Harry very much. It is the happiest thing to have old and young at home. There is also an old Chinese lady who caused them to change positions, which is super joyful.

I'm thinking that this kind of story should actually be a lot earlier in our Hong Kong films, but we often express it in the form of a ghost's upper body. Chinese people are really mysterious to foreigners, so they will choose an old Chinese lady to have such abilities.

In addition, the music is very good, because Anna in it is playing an underground band, and the two songs in it are very good. Every time I see this kind of band in a movie, I always think of Linkin Park. I remembered that when I was in college, I sometimes went to see a movie organized by the Film Association with my best friend, and then their president loved Lincoln very much, and would always put Lincoln's concert at the beginning of the movie. Shocked!

Our youth with nowhere to go!

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  • Florencio 2022-04-20 09:01:39

    I LIKE IT. TAKE ME AWAY, is still the best song I've ever unpacked. The two generations can only truly understand and accept each other's things.

  • Cathy 2022-03-27 09:01:05

    These people who translate movie names are just in the shit

Freaky Friday quotes

  • Anna (in Tess's body): Root canal? That's not fair, they're not my teeth.

  • Anna (in Tess's body): Like cooking: I mean, have you never heard of takeout? And cleaning: let's don't and say we did. Quality time with your kids: You know what? Quit bugging 'em. Leave 'em alone. They like it!